Conqueror224 Posted August 28, 2004 Posted August 28, 2004 I am going into my sophomore year of high school and I haven't had a date with a girl. Let alone anything else to do with a girl. My best friends have girlfriends all the time. I'm not saying they're studs or anything I am just saying I feel left out because nothing serious has happened between a girl and me. I am quite shy at school and most other places but that can't be the only reason why I have never had a girlfriend. I'm not exactly the hottest guy around or even in the top 50 but that really shouldn't be a problem should it? I was just curious why I have never had a girlfriend and probably won't for some time. Please give me your incite.
BurningBright Posted September 1, 2004 Posted September 1, 2004 I'm not exactly the hottest guy around or even in the top 50 but that really shouldn't be a problem should it? Nope! Girls tend to fall for a man's personality more then anything. You could be the hottest guy in your entire school, and if you act like a jerk to women... you most likely won't have much luck... except for finding the very shallow females who like to put up with s**t. You need to gain some confidence. I'm sure you are a very nice guy, and would treat a woman wonderfully... so that's not really a concern. If you were to get some confidence in yourself (or at least more then you have now), and start to carry yourself a little "higher".. girls will start to notice. We have a 6th sense for this sort of thing. My tips... Realize all the good about yourself... all the lovely qualities you DO have. Whenever you walk past a girl/ talk to a girl you're somewhat interested in... start thinking.. " Ya, I do have a shot.. I am a nice guy, I do have a great smile, yadda yadda yadda". The minute you start to realize you are worthy enough and CAN get a girlfriend, I'm sure you will. Good luck, and keep us posted! ~BurningBright
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