Imajerk17 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 (edited) I am on Match, and I sent a girl an email about 5 days ago. She never got back to me. I checked her profile (on my mobile phone--crucial detail) and saw that was because she wasn't online basically since I sent her the email. But then I inadvertently hit the wrong button on my mobile and sent her a wink! (I never send winks. Winks are weak. I had planned on trying her again with a second email because I really like her profile. I am hoping that I didn't torpedo any chance of the second email working...) Edited February 6, 2013 by Imajerk17
SJC2008 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Not a big deal since it was 5 days ago but I definately wouldn't send a second email. Most people who do OLD are fairly active so she's probably getting tired of it or is one of the few that doesn't log on too often. Speaking of fauxs, a couple years ago I went on a date with a customer I asked out. When I called her she didn't answer and I pocket dialed her a few mins later:(! How embarrassing... I didn't get a second date but don't think it was because of that.
Author Imajerk17 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 I actually have decent luck emailing women a second time. I am wondering if by winking I screwed that up. Match makes it way too easy to do something stupid like that. Just a finger slip on my android... Having to press a confirmation button would be a huge help.
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Yep, I actually dig guys trying the second time. If I am on a fence or just not takim him seriously, by e-mailing second time he is showing that he is really interested. That's a big plus.
Author Imajerk17 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 (edited) Yep, I actually dig guys trying the second time. If I am on a fence or just not takim him seriously, by e-mailing second time he is showing that he is really interested. That's a big plus. Good. I just emailed her right now (as it appears she is back online). I hope she doesn't "hold the wink against me". I emailed her 5 (actually 6) days ago, checked her profile a couple of hours ago (which was when I inadvertently winked), and I just emailed her. I hope this is cool. [i didn't bring up the wink in my email that I sent today, that would have sounded like explaining myself too much.] Edited February 6, 2013 by Imajerk17
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 You're fine. It happens. The second email is a great idea. I sometimes changed my mind as a result of those. Hope it works out! 1
SJC2008 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Good. I just emailed her right now (as it appears she is back online). I hope she doesn't "hold the wink against me". I emailed her 5 (actually 6) days ago, checked her profile a couple of hours ago (which was when I inadvertently winked), and I just emailed her. I hope this is cool. [i didn't bring up the wink in my email that I sent today, that would have sounded like explaining myself too much.] Yeah but two emails and a win? I don't know about that one... Good luck though!
Casablanca Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Yep, I actually dig guys trying the second time. If I am on a fence or just not takim him seriously, by e-mailing second time he is showing that he is really interested. That's a big plus. Really? I figured most girls wouldn't like that. If you were on the fence, why not message him back and see how that goes?
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