calgary Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I ended things because she was flirting with other guys infront of me and not giving me as much attention anymore and anytime I said anything she got mad and told me she'd never cheat.. so I looked jealous .. she looked like a sl*t. she's out partying all the time.. intended on hooking up with a guy 5 days after the break up.. it all hurts so much.. even though she wants to go for dinner and talk to me about her life problems and how shes a mess.. I still don't see how I could ever go back to a girl who all of a sudden decided she just wants to go out and do a lot of dirty things with guys and then come back to me when she's done with that? even if she doesn't want me back I still don't understand how a girl who hates people who sleep around.. has only slept with me and spoke the whole way through the relationship of how she would never be one of those people... can over night become one of those people ? no contact and getting on with my life will help.. there are girls that like me.. i'm just not ready to date I think it would be surreal sat in a restaurant with somebody else. I still love her, hope she hasn't done anything with anyone else yet.. and that I could slowly build the relationship back up again.... but I need to flush these thoughts down the toilet and just keep spending my nights alone until I can eventually bear the thought of taking another girl out. I don't want to hurt anybody else in the process. what are your thoughts of gigs girls? do they come back ? has anybody ever taken a girl like this back? it's absolutely devastating going through a break up like this.
CptSaveAho Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 You dont....they are a mess when/if they come back 3
flitzanu Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I ended things because she was flirting with other guys infront of me and not giving me as much attention anymore and anytime I said anything she got mad and told me she'd never cheat.. so I looked jealous .. she looked like a sl*t. she's out partying all the time.. intended on hooking up with a guy 5 days after the break up.. it all hurts so much.. even though she wants to go for dinner and talk to me about her life problems and how shes a mess.. I still don't see how I could ever go back to a girl who all of a sudden decided she just wants to go out and do a lot of dirty things with guys and then come back to me when she's done with that? even if she doesn't want me back I still don't understand how a girl who hates people who sleep around.. has only slept with me and spoke the whole way through the relationship of how she would never be one of those people... can over night become one of those people ? no contact and getting on with my life will help.. there are girls that like me.. i'm just not ready to date I think it would be surreal sat in a restaurant with somebody else. I still love her, hope she hasn't done anything with anyone else yet.. and that I could slowly build the relationship back up again.... but I need to flush these thoughts down the toilet and just keep spending my nights alone until I can eventually bear the thought of taking another girl out. I don't want to hurt anybody else in the process. what are your thoughts of gigs girls? do they come back ? has anybody ever taken a girl like this back? it's absolutely devastating going through a break up like this. yes it is devastating going through it. she's making it pretty clear she is hooking up with other guys though, so that's a clear sign she's moving on and you shouldn't be waiting around.
Recommended Posts