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Sorry about my bad english

Im chinese but currently studying in singapore

I need to state that Im not an innocent girl

Im going to tell the story of mine.

 

He is backpacker

I met him in a guest house in Thailand when I was on my vacation

It just happened 4 months ago.

I was kind of drunk on the first night and have no idea how did we end up together. we did not have sex though as I was too dry.

I dont know what happen to me and I started to have feelings for him so we had sex on my last night in Thailand.

 

I went back to sg but I cant stop thinking of him. Few weeks later I noticed that he was in town from his facebook and I screwed up the courage went to find him and seeing him off to Bali in the airport.

I miss him too much so I booked a ticket to Bali right after my exams,I know this sounds crazy. We had sex again in Indonesia.

 

Few weeks later, he msg me that he's coming to sg for couple of hours between flights. We met again and I treat him a meal. Two weeks later, he msg me that he's coming to sg between flights again, this time we got ourselve a cheap hotel room and we even split the money becuz he cant afford the full price. Thats really stupid I know. Now he's in Taiwan and I think that we will never seen each other again.

 

I cried a lot after he left. This just happended three days ago. I know Im stupid but I just cant control myself. I know we are just friends with benefits. I once asked him that whether he like me or just like to **** me, he said that he likes me. I dont believe him at all anyway.

 

I used to be a very proud girl and never give a damn about any guy.

After been through this, at least now I learnt to respect other people's feelings.

 

Any kind advices here?

Posted

What advice are you looking for?

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I just feel very frustrating right now, i think im just a ****ing idoit...

and i dont even know what kind of advice im looking for....

just kill myself... so embarassing...

Posted

Sounds like a case of Bad Girl Gone GOOD!! Wow, awesome. High Five.

 

Some advice:

 

Tell him you want something more, like a LDR. If he says no then do NC. :-)

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Posted

thank you for ur advise!

but things just dont work out I guess, I'm already moved on:D

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thank you for ur advise!

but things just dont work out I guess, I'm already moved on:D

 

Well done. Next time, you know what to do.

Posted

never thought i would find a fellow singaporean here but....damn girl you move on fast

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Im not Singaporean but studying in here haha~ very safe country!

you are Singaporean?

I have to move on since he don't like me... So many fish in the sea!

Posted

Yes, I'm a born and bred Singaporean :).

 

Well, that's one way to look at it I guess. Good for you :)

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