OpenBook13 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 A girl I like has FWB situation going on with multiple guys. There are nights I stay over and while she is showing me a clip on her phone, a text will pop up from another dude "do you want to come over tonight". She brushed it off saying that she'll respond tomorrow. Now I can't help but wonder, if she doesn't respond to my texts... is she with another dude. She has condoms in her dresser, and takes BC in the morning. The sex is great and she doesn't outright tell me this but from what her body tell me it's good for her too. These are the facts in the case. She constantly asks me to do things with her that I guess these other guys don't do, like go on runs with her, compete in athletic competitions like a triathlon. For some reason, how do I bring up the FWB thing without sounding jealous? It's weird because we will text all day about how much fun we had the other night, plan going out to places like a nightclub or just out to the beach. Maybe I should just tell her how I feel about her? Or maybe this is what she wants... no commitment. Any advice?
TaraMaiden Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 She sounds perfectly happy with things the way they are. You are obviously, not. Unfortunately, I think it just boils down to this: Either carry on with things as they are, or back out, back off and let it go.
Author OpenBook13 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 All my life I was a heavy guy 300-340lbs, until Dec 2011 when I decided to do something about it. Today I'm 190. So yes, I am late to the dating world. Us ER nurses don't get out much and when we do, our time is precious. So I'm going to heed your advice and stop having sex with this broad, and slowly back away.
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