forgiveandforget Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I thought I had made it through the first 24 hours without hearing from my now xMM, but right as I laid down he texted me to tell me he was thinking about me and how he hoped I had had an ok day. I didn't respond but I feel like he's rubbed alcohol in the already open wound. Is it normal to feel this broken? I've been crying for hours.
whichwayisup Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Block him. You didn't break NC, he did. Right now you don't have it in you to delete his texts, so if you can block him or even consider changing your number. POST here if you feel like you're reply back to him - This way venting here will help prevent you from breaking NC. He's an idiot for breaking NC and obviously thinks nothing (disrespecting) of how breaking NC will make you feel. He does know NC is in place, right? If yes, then DO change your number...Think about it.
Author forgiveandforget Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Block him. You didn't break NC, he did. Right now you don't have it in you to delete his texts, so if you can block him or even consider changing your number. POST here if you feel like you're reply back to him - This way venting here will help prevent you from breaking NC. He's an idiot for breaking NC and obviously thinks nothing (disrespecting) of how breaking NC will make you feel. He does know NC is in place, right? If yes, then DO change your number...Think about it. He definitely knows NC was the deal. It's amazing to me how torn up I can get over one little text. This hurts way worse than I ever imagined it.
Lillyfree Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 block him. it will still hurt, but you will heal. any contact from him will just delay your healing 1
Acheron Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I am on day one of NC too glad we are together with it. this replying to threads could be addictive I am starting to feel like I exist again, without all his mind games... 1
whichwayisup Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 He definitely knows NC was the deal. It's amazing to me how torn up I can get over one little text. This hurts way worse than I ever imagined it. He is testing you, but not really thinking about it. Meaning, he isn't sitting there going "let's see what it takes so she'll cave and reply back.." he ISN'T thinking at all - Only of himself because he just wants to hear from you. This is the withdrawal part he is going through and you probably are as well. He is totally disrespecting NC and isn't thinking of what it is doing to you. Please, consider blocking or changing your number. NC is for you to heal, to grieve the loss, not to play a game and see how long it takes till someone caves. NC=no new hurts. That's how it's supposed to be, so do all that you can to make it impossible for him to contact you.
missy268 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Keeping NC is really hard I unfortunatly rekindled my affair over christmas - I ended it on Friday , so day 4 of NC today....feels like we have been NC for weeks. I will have to see him over the weekend as we are working together. Whatever his reasons for texting , stick to your guns and be strong! either that or block his number! xx
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