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SJC2008 Established Member

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I'd much rather have sex with a woman I'm in an r with than a ONS or a FWB. I've never had a FWB and don't know how I'd do in a FWB situation but If I'm going to have steady sex with someone; things should be monogomous or at least headed in that direction.

 

Now days people view sex about as sacred as pumping gas IMO and that's a HUGE problem for me. And as stated before the "it's just sex" crowd are the ones who are going to cheat, regarless of gender. While I may sound like Mother Theresa I'm certainly not which is why I could and would date a woman who has had SOME casual sex in her day. I just want her to have the same view as me in that it's better to have sex in an R and casual sex should be kept to a minium.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Didn't it hurt? Was gum on the shoe extra kind of like dinner and a show?

 

 

No it didn't hurt, it was mentally stimulating to have a college student come to my apt and dance to my selected music on back;)

pbjbear Established Member

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I dance around my dog to Kanye music in Kimpossible pajamas and ballet slippers and he seems to get turned on by it.

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he likes 'em barefooted :) !

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Was it these "boots are made for walking"?

 

barefoot walking

candie13 Established Member

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I bet the dancer was silent too (she didn't mention any fwb she might have had in her tumultuous past in between pirouettes, while dancing on your chest? guess not...)

 

ooups, there goes another detail, control. You demand to be in control. Too bad you cannot control a person's past... real life sucks !!!

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PhillyDude Established Member

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I bet the dancer was silent too (she didn't mention any fwb she might have had in her tumultuous past in between pirouettes, while dancing on your chest? guess not...)

 

ooups, there goes another detail, control. You demand to be in control. Too bad you cannot control a person's past... real life sucks !!!

 

 

The only requirements to dance on my back are

 

1. Cute Face

 

2. Sexy Feet

 

3. Goofy personality

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PhillyDude Established Member

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What are sexy feet?

 

Nice pedicured feet.

pbjbear Established Member

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The only time I have seen a dog get "turned on" by a woman was in a bestiality clip where the girl was having sex with the dog. He would follow her around the room waiting for more.

 

Its unlikely he wasnt turned on considering he would drool and then attack my crotch when I was finished

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I had a FWB once.

 

 

My boyfriend knows. Does it make him happy? NO.

Have I talked about it since? Heck NO.

Is he still with me because I am awesome regardless? YES.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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I had a FWB once.

 

 

My boyfriend knows. Does it make him happy? NO.

Have I talked about it since? Heck NO.

Is he still with me because I am awesome regardless? YES.

 

 

Why did even tell him?

kaylan Established Member

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Why are guys this hung up on casual sex if theyve had it themselves in the past. I really dont get it.

 

If you dont think girls whove had FWBs are worthy of a relationship, then you arent worthy, nor should you even think you are worthy of one either.

 

I fvking hate hypocrites with idiotic double standards.

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She had a couple of FWB in the past????? I don't think I'm supposed to know that. It's hard for me to take someone seriously who admits to "f*cking a guy every time she was horny.

 

 

Anyone agree?

 

Everyone knows women aren't suppose to get horny. And if we do, we are suppose to lift up are Sunday school dresses and quietly masturbate until orgasm is reached. Didn't she learn anything about her place as a woman! Damn these new-found women that actually get horny and like sex.

 

It's one thing to have a couple FWB. It's another if she really did sleep with a guy everytime she was horny. But I doubt she slept with any guy just because she was horny. Most women have to even like their FWB to sleep with them anyway.

 

This isn't the Dick Van Dyck show. Grow ups sleep in the same bed now!

 

PS. I heart you PhillyDude, you're the Jerry Sinfield of Philapelphia. God Bless you.

Leigh 87 Established Member

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Can the OP please kindly answer why having a FWB equates to sleeping around with any random guy that comes her way?

 

 

..I had a fwb. I have also only had 2 guys in 4 years that I have been intimate with.

 

 

It is BEYOND ridiculous to ASSUME that women who approve of FWB are sl*ts.

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SJC2008 Established Member

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Can the OP please kindly answer why having a FWB equates to sleeping around with any random guy that comes her way?

 

 

..I had a fwb. I have also only had 2 guys in 4 years that I have been intimate with.

 

 

It is BEYOND ridiculous to ASSUME that women who approve of FWB are sl*ts.

 

I don't really understand fwb? Some people are making them out to be good things. One said you trust them etc. Well if you trust them date them! Are these fwb's monogomous?? Or can both parties sleep with other people??

Leigh 87 Established Member

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yeah buddy I totally agree LTR,and serious boyfriends would not bug me at all .

But fwb,ons,3ways,orgies,lol no way

 

Imagine going down on that...yuck ..

 

 

I have had a threesome, fwb, (and one night stands when I was a teenager)

 

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I am 26 now and have only had two men in 4 years.

 

My vagina is extremely tight, according to the two men I have slept with in the past 4 or 5 years...

 

I also have a very attractive vagina, thank you.

 

Oh - and I use natural soap so it smells very lovely when guys go down on me.

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Leigh 87 Established Member

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I don't really understand fwb? Some people are making them out to be good things. One said you trust them etc. Well if you trust them date them! Are these fwb's monogomous?? Or can both parties sleep with other people??

 

 

I only sleep with ONE FWB at a time!!!

 

I am very VERY selective with the guys I let be intimate with me.

 

I like sex and I believe it is healthier for those who enjoy sex, to have it regularly, even when they are not in loving relationships.

 

NOT EVERYONE will benifit with regular sex! Evidentally, a few people on here have stated that they cannot bring themselves to have sex unless they are in a serious relationship.

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I don't really understand fwb? Some people are making them out to be good things. One said you trust them etc. Well if you trust them date them! Are these fwb's monogomous?? Or can both parties sleep with other people??

Sometimes you trust someone and feel comfortable enough to date them casually and have sex, but you know the long term compatibility isnt there.

 

And sometimes things can start as an FWB arrangement, and while the feelings grow, sometimes it just doesnt make it to that exclusive relationship stage.

 

It can be complicated. The last girl I slept with, wasnt actually a girlfriend, she kinda was....but then at the same time we never agreed on a relationship. So at the same time I could say it was a FWB thing. We only had sex with each other, acted very couply...doing stuff like cooking for each other, sleep overs, hand holding, cuddling, etc...but we never got to the official stage.

 

So FWB arrangements are a mixed bag. It shouldnt be seen as all good or all bad. It really depends. Some people truly do sleep around and have way too many FWBs. While other people have only had a few in their dating life...or had more than a few while trying to turn someone they casually dated into a relationship.

 

What would you call the girl I last slept with? An ex gf or a FWB? It didnt have a relationship label, but it sure felt like one.

Leigh 87 Established Member

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Same place most stereotypes come from... inexperience.

 

The problem with FWB situations is that in the vast majority... one person or the other wants more. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that going in.

 

 

 

Not in my experience.

 

We are just two people who like and respect each other, but do not feel the "it" factor or have feelings towards each other.

 

We are attractive people to one another, and like each other enough as people, to have sex.

 

I am a VERY loving girlfriend with men I love! I love VERY strongly when i do love!

 

I am one of those girlfriends who spoils and looks after my boyfriend, and makes it CLEAR that he is much loved.

 

...Yet OMG - I am also capable of having meaningless sex because I enjoy sex!!!!!!!!

Leigh 87 Established Member

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Sometimes you trust someone and feel comfortable enough to date them casually and have sex, but you know the long term compatibility isnt there.

 

And sometimes things can start as an FWB arrangement, and while the feelings grow, sometimes it just doesnt make it to that exclusive relationship stage.

 

It can be complicated. The last girl I slept with, wasnt actually a girlfriend, she kinda was....but then at the same time we never agreed on a relationship. So at the same time I could say it was a FWB thing. We only had sex with each other, acted very couply...doing stuff like cooking for each other, sleep overs, hand holding, cuddling, etc...but we never got to the official stage.

 

So FWB arrangements are a mixed bag. It shouldnt be seen as all good or all bad. It really depends. Some people truly do sleep around and have way too many FWBs. While other people have only had a few in their dating life...or had more than a few while trying to turn someone they casually dated into a relationship.

 

What would you call the girl I last slept with? An ex gf or a FWB? It didnt have a relationship label, but it sure felt like one.

 

 

 

 

 

I never do it that way... I do not have fwbs with people who I cuddle and act relationshipy with.

 

I just hate being like that with people I am not in love with. That is just how I feel, everyones is different:)

 

The most I do is maybe sit on their lap and flirt with them when we first get together... You know, cos you have to get together SOME one, with SOME form of cuddling or getting close..

 

After the initial hook up and sitting on their laps, I would... just watch TV with them, I would never lay down cuddling!

 

We would chat and feel the need to joke around though, we enjoyed talking to each other, but that was all..

kaylan Established Member

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Im an affectionate and attentive lad. What can I say? When Im with a woman I like, thats all I know how to do.

 

I should have slowed that all down, but we felt right doing that stuff in the moment.

Leigh 87 Established Member

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If a guy has a FBuddy he is an idiot. If a woman has an FBuddy... she is an idiot.

 

I don't know even 1 such situation where it ended well. Only selfish asholes do this kind of stuff.

 

 

 

It's hot because you think that makes her sluttier.

 

 

 

 

 

I am probably one of the nicest people you could meet.

 

I an NOT an 2sshole.

 

... Since when did you actually know me?

 

...........................HOW does having a FWB in my past make me an @sshole?

 

 

 

Your logic, of assuming I am a bad person before actually knowing me, is...... too riduculous to find a word for!

 

 

 

I would never treat a FWB badly, and as soon as they started to care too much about me, I am not an idiot, and I would pick up on it.

 

 

There is also a thing called: communication! You know, wherby you touch base with your FWB to make sure your on the same page...

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I am probably one of the nicest people you could meet.

 

I an NOT an 2sshole.

 

... Since when did you actually know me?

 

...........................HOW does having a FWB in my past make me an @sshole?

 

 

 

Your logic, of assuming I am a bad person before actually knowing me, is...... too riduculous to find a word for!

 

 

 

I would never treat a FWB badly, and as soon as they started to care too much about me, I am not an idiot, and I would pick up on it.

 

 

There is also a thing called: communication! You know, wherby you touch base with your FWB to make sure your on the same page...

 

I am sorry I don't think anyone is an ******* or not for their sexual habits... but I find people who have had a more casual approach to sex much less suitable for people who take sex seriously...

 

If you enjoy meaningless sex you should just try to find people who think alike you and date them... just respect people who would not like to date women with that kind of past... it is our right to chose not to date this kind of people! I am getting so tired of this kind of posts... what do you guys need to proof? You are happy with casual sex... great! Enjoy it , I think you should keep doing it if it enriches your life! Just accept there is people who don't like it and would not date someone who approach sex as you do...

Leigh 87 Established Member

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I am sorry I don't think anyone is an ******* or not for their sexual habits... but I find people who have had a more casual approach to sex much less suitable for people who take sex seriously...

 

If you enjoy meaningless sex you should just try to find people who think alike you and date them... just respect people who would not like to date women with that kind of past... it is our right to chose not to date this kind of people! I am getting so tired of this kind of posts... what do you guys need to proof? You are happy with casual sex... great! Enjoy it , I think you should keep doing it if it enriches your life! Just accept there is people who don't like it and would not date someone who approach sex as you do...

 

 

 

 

Who the heck do you think you are?

 

I NEVER said I did not take sex seriosuly!

 

 

 

.....I have a long term boyfriend. We have been together a couple of years now.

 

 

.... Is it THAT hard to compreha\end, that I enjoy both casual sex, AND ALSO enjoy sex in a meaningfull relationship?:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

 

 

 

And WHAT sort of "past" are you inferring to? UM, I have been with about 2 men in FIVE YEARS...

 

One was a FWB, one was a boyfriend.

 

 

....The fact I can have casual sex DOES NOT mean the sex with my long term partners are somehow NOT as meaningful as the people who do not engage in casual sex.

 

 

 

Get it? A person who is capable of having a FWB, is ALSO capable of having very serious sex, with one they love...

Leigh 87 Established Member

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Man, the amount of ignorant people in this thread is MIND blowing....

 

Really? having FWB = dirty sl*t?

 

FWB means a girl must surely sleep around?

 

FWB means a women is NOT capable of fulling loving, and having sex that is JUST AS SERIOUS as a person who has NOT had a fwb?

 

 

 

Just wow.

 

 

I really struggle to see why a girl who DOES NOT want to wait a year inbetween having sex or fooling around, is lacking self control" by surcumbing to casual sex?

 

 

 

....Why the hell SHOULD we go without something we like?

 

 

I hate judgmental people.

 

You make me laugh! Especially Philly dude - he ACTUALLY thinks he has more class than me, cos I enjoy fwb when I have them?

 

 

For that ONE fact alone? HAving had a fwb?

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