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She had a couple of FWB in the past????? I don't think I'm supposed to know that. It's hard for me to take someone seriously who admits to "f*cking a guy every time she was horny.

 

 

Anyone agree?

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I thought having a FWB was confidential information? It's not?

 

 

You have to build a trusting foundation some where...

 

Does it really matter if she did or didn't? Are you looking for the epitome of perfection? If so, that does not exist.

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She had a couple of FWB in the past????? I don't think I'm supposed to know that. It's hard for me to take someone seriously who admits to "f*cking a guy every time she was horny.

 

 

Anyone agree?

 

Turned on actually. :o

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You have to build a trusting foundation some where...

 

Does it really matter if she did or didn't? Are you looking for the epitome of perfection? If so, that does not exist.

 

 

It's just some things that are better left unsaid like

 

1. If you had a FWB

 

2. Multiple One Night stands

 

3. Number of sexual partners

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As long as she showered afterwards.

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Turned on actually. :o

 

 

Please tell me why?

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It's just some things that are better left unsaid like

 

1. If you had a FWB

 

2. Multiple One Night stands

 

3. Number of sexual partners

 

I feel like that would be going into a relationship blind.

 

Plus, that's helpful info to know when deciding when to make the first move sexually.

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It's best to not do things you think you need to hide. Obviously this woman doesn't think it's a big deal. If you do OP, that's on you. You seem to have some pretty serious issues with honesty, even at a very basic level. If you've got an issue with FWBs or one night stands or meaningless sex, don't do those things. You sure as hell shouldn't think someone should hide them from you because you've got hangups or feel ashamed about your behaviour.

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She had a couple of FWB in the past????? I don't think I'm supposed to know that. It's hard for me to take someone seriously who admits to "f*cking a guy every time she was horny.

 

 

Anyone agree?

 

No.

 

In fact, that a good thing for me since she is already experienced.

 

After all, I'm an "untamed beast". I need to be trained first.

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Please tell me why?

 

The more laidback she is the better.

 

Nothing says laidback like no strings attached sex. :p

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I think the problem is just initially presented herself as this classy and sweet female who is not sex unless she is in a relationship.

 

 

So i am a little shocked right now

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I think the problem is just initially presented herself as this classy and sweet female who is not sex unless she is in a relationship.

 

 

So i am a little shocked right now

 

I don't see that at all.

 

All she told you is that she likes sex.

 

Outside of a select few, who doesn't like sex?

 

I don't see anything wrong with that. In fact, I will be glad to hear that as I found a female who wants to get down and dirty.

 

I love those kinds of women. If you don't want her, please send her my way. :love:

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I don't see that at all.

 

All she told you is that she likes sex.

 

Outside of a select few, who doesn't like sex?

 

I don't see anything wrong with that. In fact, I will be glad to hear that as I found a female who wants to get down and dirty.

 

I love those kinds of women. If you don't want her, please send her my way. :love:

 

 

I just prefer not to have a girlfriend like that. I don't mind doing that someone who I don't consider dating material

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I just prefer not to have a girlfriend like that. I don't mind doing that someone who I don't consider dating material

 

I really don't see the problem. She was merely being open to you.

 

You need to stop being so concerned over this. There is a crap ton of other issues you need to be worried about more than this.

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I really don't see the problem. She was merely being open to you.

 

You need to stop being so concerned over this. There is a crap ton of other issues you need to be worried about more than this.

 

I don't think you've read enough of the OP's posts. It's always much ado about nothing. The problem is that no one's perfect, so you're more likely to end up alone than to find the perfect person.

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Honestly Phillydude, I get it. I didn't like knowing that stuff about ex-boyfriends.

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Double standard considering men are able to have all the sex partners they want without getting any flack for it. Newsflash: men and women have always had casual sex outside of relationships, but today's morals about sexuality have relaxed (rightfully so), so people are more open about it. If you like the girl, let it go. Don't overanalyze everyone she's banged in the past please. :laugh: Otherwise, keep an eye out for that "good girl" virgin princess you seem to desire! Good luck.

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I don't think you've read enough of the OP's posts. It's always much ado about nothing. The problem is that no one's perfect, so you're more likely to end up alone than to find the perfect person.

 

Sounds more like you are guaranteed to be alone than find the perfect person.

 

I mean, hell. I want my women to tell me that. If she honestly believe that will scare me away because she has an active sex drive and has no shame saying it, they really don't know me very well.

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Double standard considering men are able to have all the sex partners they want without getting any flack for it. Newsflash: men and women have always had casual sex outside of relationships, but today's morals about sexuality have relaxed (rightfully so), so people are more open about it. If you like the girl, let it go. Don't overanalyze everyone she's banged in the past please. :laugh: Otherwise, keep an eye out for that "good girl" virgin princess you seem to desire! Good luck.

 

 

I would love to meet a cute geeky female but I don't it's any left in Philly in the 28 to 37 range

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I think she may just be downgraded to a "PLAY BUDDY" which means she is not qualified to be out in public with me anymore.

 

All Indoor encounters

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Oh boy...ok I don't want to be mean philly...but based on your threads on this forum, you're literally the worst "catch" anyone could imagine. I'm not quite sure why you think you have the right to be so picky :laugh:

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Oh boy...ok I don't want to be mean philly...but based on your threads on this forum, you're literally the worst "catch" anyone could imagine. I'm not quite sure why you think you have the right to be so picky :laugh:

 

 

Because since I am a classy dude who takes sex very seriously I want to meet a woman who is the same.

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Because since I am a classy dude who takes sex very seriously I want to meet a woman who is the same.

 

Oh yeah? I don't see any of that "class" in your last post.

 

Come on now, you know what I'm talking about.

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Oh yeah? I don't see any of that "class" in your last post.

 

Come on now, you know what I'm talking about.

 

 

U really dont know u mean

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She had a couple of FWB in the past????? I don't think I'm supposed to know that. It's hard for me to take someone seriously who admits to "f*cking a guy every time she was horny.

 

 

Anyone agree?

 

That's pretty judgemental... FWB doesn't necessarily mean that.

 

Having said that, no, absolutely not. People have relationships of varying degrees throughout their life.

 

I mean, what if I dated a girl for a month, and we had sex a lot. Then one of us decided we didn't want to continue into a relationship before having "the talk".

What is that? Is that to be looked down on? Was it a FWB thing? Was it a relationship? What was it?

 

WHO CARES! If you feel that way about a girl, let her go, IMMEDIATELY! She deserved better than someone who'll look down on them for something that has NOTHING to do with you.

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