Author stevie_23 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Ooh, and there's a song called Slipping Away...it's really sad.
suladas Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I can listen to any song again no problem. A few after the BU really got to me but went away. Today-Gary Allen was really bad for a while.
th90 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I wont give up - jason mraz Lucky - jason mraz ft colbie cailat (our song) Locked out of heaven - bruno mars (makes me feel cheated by his infidelity) And i generally avoid all love songs.
MyAngel Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I made her a couple of mixed CDs. A lot of those songs I can still listen to if they come on the radio, no problems. But if I hear "call me maybe", "just the way you are" and any mumford and sons, especially "I will wait", I switch it over or skip (ive been listening to the pandora radio app, it's awesome!). Especially "I will wait" because she DID NOT WAIT and she always said that song reminded her of us and it's a crock of crap to me now. Meh.
Njeanne Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 We had a moment where we were playing this for a while, and everyday I would sing this song on skype and he would sing the male part.
Debbie2508 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 3 in particular really get to me.... Since you've been gone by Rainbow. Cry by 10cc and If you're not the one by Daniel Beddingfield. Like Stevie, I have the radio on at work all day and am forever switching stations whenever I hear a sad song starting.
meeji Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 On the way to work this morning, I heard this song and thought of this thread because I had to fight back the tears.
lollipop29 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I feel like I pretty much need to avoid ANY music actually. All songs remind me of my situation, and any song that I listened to while I was in the relationship. Which is pretty much every song i like. Sigh..
candie13 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I pretty much ruined the Script for him . He made me discover Of Men and Mice - Little Talks... I sent him Muse - Madness the first time I've heard it... Such a good thing, summer ended a long long time ago!
Lillyfree Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 'everlong' by foo fighters came on the radio while i was driving home yesterday. wasn't quick enough to switch to a different station before my eyes welled up... switched to my mp3 player and 'feel so low' by porcupine tree comes on. yesterday was not my day i love music, so does he. we talked about it a lot and have so much in common... oh another one he told me he was listening to and thinking about me a couple of times: sweetest perfection by depeche mode. actually, he ruined DM for me, should be enough of a reason to hate him
Author stevie_23 Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 Like Stevie, I have the radio on at work all day and am forever switching stations whenever I hear a sad song starting. I CAN’T change the station at my work! It’s a communal radio and it just stays on the same station all day. I am forced to endure certain songs. Ugh.
Sanctionne Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 At 1st I couldn't listen to music period because I would hear the drums in the background and my ex is a drummer. Sucks for me since my fav genre of music is Drum and Bass. ha!
Lillyfree Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 At 1st I couldn't listen to music period because I would hear the drums in the background and my ex is a drummer. Sucks for me since my fav genre of music is Drum and Bass. ha! i drum too. wonder if he gets a little reminder as well
green333 Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 Lol, I guess I'm weird because I still listen to songs that remind me of the guy I dated, just so I can make myself work through them. On our second date, he made a soundtrack to play while we were driving, and the song that I remember the most is Never Say Never by The Fray. Still reminds me of him, so I wallow around in those feelings. But then I also remember the bad things about him, and I feel better. I used to absolutely bawl when All Too Well by Taylor Swift came on in my car. I like to sing along to the music, but I would break down (while driving ) when the bridge started. I even replaced some of the lyrics to my memories of what we did together. Well, gradually, my sadness and omg-I-miss-him-so-badly turned into anger at what he did to me, and now it's turned into a sad/mad/acceptance feeling so I know that I've moved on. The memories will always be there, but they're not holding me back anymore. Song therapy, anyone?
skydiveaddict Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 (edited) I have a few songs I just can’t listen to anymore… Anyone else? This one... Edited February 7, 2013 by skydiveaddict
meeji Posted February 7, 2013 Posted February 7, 2013 I pretty much ruined the Script for him . He made me discover Of Men and Mice - Little Talks... I sent him Muse - Madness the first time I've heard it... Such a good thing, summer ended a long long time ago! Everywhere I go I hear Madness. I went on a dinner date recently and the song came on in the middle of my date!!!!! WTF!
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