Ask a girl out Friday or weekend after Valentine's Day, or the following week?

[flashx80]

I asked a girl out last Thursday to go out with me last Saturday. She said she is busy studying, which I understand because it's first week of school. I can't ask her out this week because that would be too clingy, so I'm going to ask her out after this week. However, I'm trying to avoid having too much pressure for first date on Valentine's Day. Do you think it is better to ask her out Friday or weekend after Valentine's Day, or the following week?

[ls32ssibm]

If she is single ask her out for Val's Day. If not she'll probably be spending it with someone else or out or something.

[flashx80]

If she is single ask her out for Val's Day. If not she'll probably be spending it with someone else or out or something.

 

You don't think there's too much pressure for first date on Valentine's Day?

[ls32ssibm]

I imagine she'd prefer it to being alone.

 

 

You could always lampshade it by asking her out, and then asking if she's comfortable with Val's Day. Should be fine.

[Talak7]

I asked a girl out last Thursday to go out with me last Saturday. She said she is busy studying, which I understand because it's first week of school. I can't ask her out this week because that would be too clingy, so I'm going to ask her out after this week. However, I'm trying to avoid having too much pressure for first date on Valentine's Day. Do you think it is better to ask her out Friday or weekend after Valentine's Day, or the following week?

 

Exactly how did you ask her out?

 

It seems she already rejected you...?

[flashx80]

Exactly how did you ask her out?

 

It seems she already rejected you...?

 

Me: Hey, what is your schedule like on Saturday?

Her: Why? What's going on?

Me: I would like to take you out to a dinner again. But this time it's a date.

 

I'm taking her out to a dinner again because last month I asked her, "Since it's your birthday I would like to take out to a dinner." She laughed and said, "Sure, but I might to something with my family or friends", which I understand. I told her how about Saturday and she told me she'll let me know. The following Tuesday, she called me to buy her a pizza at the university market because I had to use up all of my dining common points before end of the semester. When we got the pizza, I suggested to eat at the student union, but she told me to eat at the study room. I wasn't sure if we were allow to eat there, so I suggested to eat at my room with my roommates instead. It went from a date to hanging out.

 

Back to the story:

 

Her: Again? I'm actually busy this Saturday because I have studying to do (I wasn't sure if she said she would like to reschedule or not)

Me: Maybe next time then

 

We changed the subject and continued to talk until she had to go to class

[clia]

Totally disagree. Don't ask her out on Valentine's Day. Not only is there too much pressure, but you will be surrounded by couples everywhere you go.

 

I asked a girl out last Thursday to go out with me last Saturday. She said she is busy studying, which I understand because it's first week of school. I can't ask her out this week because that would be too clingy, so I'm going to ask her out after this week.

 

I don't understand why it would be clingy to ask her out for this weekend. (Although, it does kind of seem like she might've blown you off last time. Ask her out one more time to be sure.)

 

However, I'm trying to avoid having too much pressure for first date on Valentine's Day. Do you think it is better to ask her out Friday or weekend after Valentine's Day, or the following week?

 

Ask her out for any day except February 14. That leaves open a lot of days.

[phineas]

Totally disagree. Don't ask her out on Valentine's Day. Not only is there too much pressure, but you will be surrounded by couples everywhere you go.

 

 

 

I don't understand why it would be clingy to ask her out for this weekend. (Although, it does kind of seem like she might've blown you off last time. Ask her out one more time to be sure.)

 

 

 

Ask her out for any day except February 14. That leaves open a lot of days.

 

This!

V-day is for lover's not someone you barely know or not even sleeping with.

[flashx80]

Totally disagree. Don't ask her out on Valentine's Day. Not only is there too much pressure, but you will be surrounded by couples everywhere you go.

 

 

 

I don't understand why it would be clingy to ask her out for this weekend. (Although, it does kind of seem like she might've blown you off last time. Ask her out one more time to be sure.)

 

 

 

Ask her out for any day except February 14. That leaves open a lot of days.

 

Actually I can't do it this weekend because I'm going back home. The fact that I asked her out last week, I think I should give some time before I ask her out again.

 

It's hard to tell if she's playing hard to get or not interested. There are times it seems she's interested and other times she's not. I can list them out if you want to know

[StanMusial]

Where I live, the restaurants tend to be filled to the rafters on Valentine's Day. Might be a hassle for a first date.

 

On a side note, I've noticed V-Day is a good night to go out and pick up girls... they are desperate and lonely and trolling the bars.

[flashx80]

Where I live, the restaurants tend to be filled to the rafters on Valentine's Day. Might be a hassle for a first date.

 

On a side note, I've noticed V-Day is a good night to go out and pick up girls... they are desperate and lonely and trolling the bars.

 

So you would suggest after Valentine's Day?