TaraMaiden Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Thank you so much for posting your response, Boy Band... It helps to confirm my impressions and theory... I was thinking, "I'm brilliant, talented, experienced and famous on here for my profound words of wisdom, but nobody's gonna buy this one in a million years.....!!" Oh come on - I'm KIDDING - !! It just seems a logical thing to analyse - why would anyone profess undying love - and then deliver the coup de grace, and kill it, only days later...?!
Author scipio Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 I was talking more about the emotional pain. I feel like i have no control over my thoughts. I'm lost,...and the thought that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore is just destroying me.
Boy Band Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 It just seems a logical thing to analyse - why would anyone profess undying love - and then deliver the coup de grace, and kill it, only days later...?! "I tried so hard to get back my feelings for you..." Gee, well, thanks for trying. You can't make someone like you. It's just a sickening feeling when they suddenly tell you they don't like you in that way anymore. And there's nothing you can say or do that will change that. It also marries up with the idea of the ex "checking out" of the relationship some time before the breakup. They try one last time to make themselves "feel it" - but that is doomed - and then they go along with their plans for Project Breakup™. They've been preparing for it emotionally for some time and they don't seem hurt to be cutting you out of their life. You're devastated...
Author scipio Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Once again, how can I deal with this effectively? I know everyone needs time to grieve, but I'm not being productive. I don't sleep, I don't eat, I have school work that I don't do. I'm trying to keep it together, but there are many external stressors that are not helping.
TaraMaiden Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I was talking more about the emotional pain. I feel like i have no control over my thoughts. I'm lost,...and the thought that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore is just destroying me. I know you were talking about 'emotional pain'.... But that kind of pain manifests and resonates in the stomach. This is something I posted in another thread: Read it and see what I mean......
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