Danblock Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So Im having a first hang with a girl tonight. She has a bf who lives overseas and visits once a month. What do you all think of the situation at hand?
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So Im having a first hang with a girl tonight. She has a bf who lives overseas and visits once a month. What do you all think of the situation at hand? What is your intention? To be in a relationship? 1
Green Light Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So Im having a first hang with a girl tonight. She has a bf who lives overseas and visits once a month. What do you all think of the situation at hand? Perhaps good for you and the girl but pretty bad for the overseas BF.
leahnc Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I dont think there is anything wrong with making new friends. I would be the guy who takes the high road though, if she starts acting interested, let her know that while you would like to be friends you need to respect the boundries of the relationship she is currently in. There would be nothing worse than getting involved with her only to find you were just a filler for her lonliness, and man#1 shows back up and saves the day.
Balzac Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 What's your definition of a cheater? If she has a BF but accepts a date with you - how exactly do you win in the scenario you propose?
Joaquin Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 She is scopeing for options in anticipation of a likely break up with the bf. It's fairly common with some people. Would you like to be that bf? Put yourself in those shoes and make of it what you will.
pbjbear Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I think until shes single, you shouldnt view her more than a friend If she is window shopping for other men while with this bf, she prob would with you too though...keep that in mind
Author Danblock Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 What is your intention? To be in a relationship? To be honest nothing my friends are the ones saying this and that. That's why I wanted different opinions. I worry that when the bf comes back even if for a day she will act like I don't exist until like some people said "until she's lonely"
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 To be honest nothing my friends are the ones saying this and that. That's why I wanted different opinions. I worry that when the bf comes back even if for a day she will act like I don't exist until like some people said "until she's lonely" Are you a substitute boyfriend then? I'm confused. Friend zone her for you own good. Sounds like a situation that could get VERY messy.
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