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Is she confused or am I ignoring red flags?


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Have been a a few dates, going out again tonight, talked on the phone for over 2 hours last night. Texting everyday (7-10 per day). She even initiates and calls me! signs are good right?

 

Or Wrong! Here's the problem. She's has listed a couple of issues, a) im 4 years younger, (33 - 29). I have admitted that I haven't spent a ton of time in serious LTRs. She says she knows what she is looking for. If so, and I am too young then why not just say so, instead of contining to show interest and accept my invitations for dates?

 

Her fear is that because I haven't been in many LTRs, that I will probably need a few more experiences before I settle, and she doesn't want to 'waste a year' to find out I'm not for her.

 

I told her that I cannot guarantee anything, and their is an inherent risk in any relationship - that's part of what makes it special when you really meet someone you like. I really like her.

 

She says she knows what she is looking for, but, if that's the case, then why does she initiate contact and go out with me? It's a little confusing!

 

Should I be considerate and end it now? Or be selfish and hope she's the one.

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