youaremysunshine Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I just posted yesterday about the man I met online I was feeling gaurded with despite really liking. We've been seeing each other just about every other day for 3 weeks. Lots of kissing and cuddling but no sex. He is 2 years younger, had never had a relationship or many friends due to being home schooled by scientologists. His parents died when he was young. He writes poetry, mostly about his years long unrequited love for the only girl he ever really met. We hung out last night and I felt more comfortable then I ever have, we talked about our beliefs and values and past life experiences. It was great. Later that night we are lying on his bed after a long make out sesh and he holding me. I say "I really like you" scilence. I say it again and this time ask what he thinks of me "you are really kind to poor people at your job"what? I ask him where this is going, and he seems not to understand the question. After much confusion he says he has no idea what he feels for me or What he wants. I said I want to be close to him and he say maybe we will GROK each other someday, but not yet. This is nerd for having a profound mystical understanding. Which he doesn't feel we have.
StanMusial Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 What in the hell. I don't understand half of the posts on here. Maybe I'm just different. If someone said they were going to GROK me I would get the hell out of dodge. 1
Author youaremysunshine Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 I can't believe I'm being rejected by a nerdy virgin based on his understanding of love he got through a Sci fi novel.
Author youaremysunshine Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Yeah I think so. It's just unfair because I'm a fairly fit girl, I work out, and he's a little overweight, still cute though. He seems attracted to me, at least he is happy to neck me and squeeze my boobs for extended periods of time. He once said that he wanted to see me naked and then chickened out, he once said that wanted for us to have "intercourse" the next time we saw each other, never happened. 1
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 What in the hell. I don't understand half of the posts on here. Maybe I'm just different. If someone said they were going to GROK me I would get the hell out of dodge. What does GROK mean? lol 2
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Yeah I think so. It's just unfair because I'm a fairly fit girl, I work out, and he's a little overweight, still cute though. He seems attracted to me, at least he is happy to neck me and squeeze my boobs for extended periods of time. He once said that he wanted to see me naked and then chickened out, he once said that wanted for us to have "intercourse" the next time we saw each other, never happened. LOL omg, I know this isn't meant to be funny but I'm laughing over here.... 2
Author youaremysunshine Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 I'm laughing too, it's rediculous. Grok is apparently a fictional Martian word for love, from the sci fi novel "a stranger in a strange land" which makes sense because I am beginning to believe he is from outer space. I've always had a thing for misfits, I have no idea why.
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I'm laughing too, it's rediculous. Grok is apparently a fictional Martian word for love, from the sci fi novel "a stranger in a strange land" which makes sense because I am beginning to believe he is from outer space. I've always had a thing for misfits, I have no idea why. lol are you going to continue to pursue this relationship?
sabre80 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 You should tell him to get naked grab his "e-meter" and tell him he is past due for a Thetan audit.
Author youaremysunshine Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 He ran away from the scientologists and now has no family. He hates the whole cult and is really angry about it. I guess he has some unresolved issues and unable to be emotionally or physical intimate. God only knows what is doing on a dating site.
superb Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 He ran away from the scientologists and now has no family. He hates the whole cult and is really angry about it. I guess he has some unresolved issues and unable to be emotionally or physical intimate. God only knows what is doing on a dating site. Sounds weirder with each post, lol....throw this fish back!
StanMusial Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Sounds weirder with each post, lol....throw this fish back! No kidding geez. Run away before he turns into an alien and tries to anal probe you. That's what they do to their victims.
Talak7 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 due to being home schooled by scientologists. His parents died when he was young. He writes poetry, mostly about his years long unrequited love for the only girl he ever really met. Was this not enough to be like "HELL NO!??" Honestly, your guy is a socially ill-developed idiot that likely follows a cult due to his upbringing. His idea of love and the unrequited love he expresses is ridiculous. You will never be anything to him. And not because of you, AT ALL. Seriously, just chalk it up to a fun interesting experience lol...
Author youaremysunshine Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 I do really like him, and also had a eff up childhood. I've dated lots of meathead bro types and I don't want that. I'm willing to give him the benefit of doubt and chalk his trepidation up to inexperience, and being a bad communicator. After telling me he wasn't sure how he felt/what he wanted he reminded me he had never done this before. maybe he will warm up to me or maybe I will never mean anything to him. I do know he will be awful lonely without me.
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Sounds weirder with each post, lol....throw this fish back! :lmao: ...and then find a different lake. This one has unusual toxins in it! This guy has a lot of issues and emotional growing up to do. He's not equipped to be in any sort of adult relationship. What attracted you to this exactly?
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