BondiGirl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I broke my own NC yesterday and he responded everytime - breadcrumbs - nothing more. I haven't responded to his last msg and this is giving me strength. I am done. No more - he can jog on. I am going to fix me then my marriage. Too much time and energy has been wasted on this dalliance. It ends today. I will get through this.
geegirl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 (edited) I broke my own NC yesterday and he responded everytime - breadcrumbs - nothing more. I haven't responded to his last msg and this is giving me strength. I am done. No more - he can jog on. I am going to fix me then my marriage. Too much time and energy has been wasted on this dalliance. It ends today. I will get through this. So, if you received something other than breadcrumbs, what would you have done? You should be fixing you and your marriage because you want to and you're done, not because you broke NC and didn't get the right response from the other man. Edited February 5, 2013 by geegirl
Coping Vortex Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So this is about an affair. Give us the details.
geegirl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So this is about an affair. Give us the details. Bondi has threads detailing her history.
Author BondiGirl Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 I still wouldn't have replied. Breadcrumbs or not it makes no difference. I just wanted to see what he would do and I know it's a silly little game but the thought that I haven't opened his last message and he will know that makes me feel like I have the power. Up until now I felt that he used me and my pride is very hurt. My H & I are actually getting on very well. There has been laughter in this house for days and we are opening up more to one another. It's not perfect, just a work in progress.
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