Heartfail Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Right. That is it. So I have had final confirmation that he is indeed seeing someone new. He is taking her to things I could only have dreamt of him showing interest in when we were together. He is gone. It is over. So today NC begins. By NC I mean no emails to him, no checking his facebook. No checking his twitter. No asking my housemates about him. Today I am going to 'Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind' him. I will throw myself into work I will make sure I see friends every night this week. Hell I might even try kiss someone when I go out this weekend. He has no name, he has no face. The memories are just a dream I had one night. He is a spectre I created in my mind. Goodbye J. I hope she can cope with your unicorns and rainbows attitude to life. So from this sentence NC begins....
TaraMaiden Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Right. That is it..... So from this sentence NC begins.... Make it so. Engage.
Author Heartfail Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Well in all fairness it's only be 4 hours but so far so good! Just knowing I am not looking at his FB/Twitter- knowing I don't know what he did last night, I don't know what he's planning on getting up to with new friends or girlfriends! I have also just made a million plans for this week and weekend PLUS booked in for a new hairstyle Saturday All in all the best start to the day I've had in quite a while!
Author Heartfail Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 OK! So haven't sent any direct messages but I have looked at SNS sites So hard NOT to. It's just habit. The good news is I haven't had a melt down So getting there
BondiGirl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Nooooooo..... S.T.O.P. Put him out of your mind. Stay NC - I am doing the same thing. Tempting as it might be I log on here instead. Good luck and stay strong x x
purpledust Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 how can we stop thinking of our ex's? i've done everything i could but i always woke up in the middle of the night with thoughts of him. whatever i do he's on my mind constantly. i hate this feeling.
Debbie2508 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 how can we stop thinking of our ex's? i've done everything i could but i always woke up in the middle of the night with thoughts of him. whatever i do he's on my mind constantly. i hate this feeling. Me too I try to think of the bad bits......but the good bits always take over. Wish i could feel anger,instead of love!!
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