h3braica Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 it's 5 weeks since BU. DAY 1 -after the break up ex said he misses me, i did nor respond DAY 2 -he texted 'miss u still', i did not respond, i blocked his number. DAY 20 -he emailed me, saying "it would rather be the end of the world than hurt me, i miss u so much." still i did not respond. DAY 36 - i broke NC. i feel the strong urge to answer one of his messages. i'm so down that time and having chest pains for weeks after i read his email. i said, ' miss u too', felt better for days. DAY 40 (today)- he emailed again saying , ' miss u still'. ( don't have a plan to respond, i got my power back.) i know we will never get back together again.
blotter Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Then put the death nail in it, don't even bother reading his pathetic texts/emails, it's just slowing down your healing.
TaraMaiden Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 .... i know we will never get back together again. In that case, ignore, block, delete, deny, disappear. Done. (*Pssst*: Read "The Guide" - My signature!)
Author h3braica Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 actually right after i respond to his mail i immediately forwarded his incoming email to trash folder but every time i check my mails, i also check the trash folder lol. i'm planning to terminate the email account anyway. just curious if he would emailed me back again and he respond. don't know what's going on here. why misses me when he dumped me? he had options to ignore my email but he answered back. it's over. i'll go back to nc again. i think i need a psychiatrist now. lol
Author h3braica Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 sometimes i felt better reading his pathetic mails. what's wrong with me?
TaraMaiden Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 actually right after i respond to his mail i immediately forwarded his incoming email to trash folder but every time i check my mails, i also check the trash folder lol. Dumb. Best to forward his mail to the trash folder BEFORE you read/respond - d'uh!! i'm planning to terminate the email account anyway. This should read: "I HAVE terminated the email account already." just curious if he would emailed me back again and he respond. don't know what's going on here. Oh don't talk wet, of course you do.... It's 'breadcrumbs'.... why misses me when he dumped me? Oh he doesn't really miss you or want you back... he just likes the attention... it's a "Boost my Ego" kind of thing.... he had options to ignore my email but he answered back. it's over. i'll go back to nc again. YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE LEFT IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!! The fact he answered back is immaterial - you should never have broken NC! i think i need a psychologist now. lol ...... No..... Ya think...?? Go, NC, stay NC! sometimes i felt better reading his pathetic mails. what's wrong with me? You keep breaking NC because some pain is better than the hard work required to maintain NC. You like the pain. You must do - it signals attention. But it's the wrong kind of attention; Fruitless, unproductive, soul-destroying and utterly pointless. You currently - not he - are your own worst enemy. You're self-sabotaging, and it's not funny. Stop, now. And yes, absolutely - if you feel you cannot do this, then seek counselling.
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