WhocanItrust Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Hello loveshack, I met this girl not too long ago. A friend of mine introduced us and we ve been talking. She claims she could have feelings but has a wall up and wants to enjoy being single for a while and just having fun for now cause she was treated bad in her last relationship she was in for a couple years. Ive been trying to work on things but i feel its going nowhere or will go nowhere. We fought alot already. I just feel like walking away. Heres the catch. Her best friend and I get along better i feel and i feel we d be a better fit. We both want the same things. And i talked to her best friend more than i did with her when we met. Even my close friends said i should go for the girls best friend not the other girl cause they think she digs me but i believe shea just being friendly. Idk what to do and i dont think i have any chance with the itger girl (girls best friend). I think shed just see me as a friend maybe. Any advice
Author WhocanItrust Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Just need advice. To be honest id love for a shot with this girl. (best friend one)
Talak7 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Sounds like you're just interested in eat you can get. At this point is doesnt matter- that's what she'll think. You also didn't choose her first- how that going to reflect? They will tell each other everything... You should give it some time and reconnect with get best friend only in a few weeks platonically and then start over from tere
Author WhocanItrust Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 Thank you. I appreciate your help. Turns out I told her the truth and it blew up in my face. Neither of them are talking to me now and I dont think they will. So i'm just gonna have to take the loss and keep moving.
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