confusedandparanoid Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I am new to this forum. In fact, I have never been a member to any forum for dating guidance, but I really need some advice about how to go about my relationship. Well, to start with, my boyfriend and I are dating for more than a year. We started off flirting, and eventually dating each other, when we were already in different cities. We are still having an LDR. I really love him a lot, and he can be great, supportive guy, at his best. But over the past few months, we have been having on/off problems. Many of these times, I have told him I want to break up. these are the times when he acts completely inconsiderate, stubborn, and extremely mean. For instance, if I am crying and trying to make him see a point, he would simply say that he does not care if I cry, because according to him, I am being stupid about certain issues. He tells me how busy he has been with his work, and how he has no time for dealing with me. He never breaks up, and tells me he wants to be with me, but once I tell him I want to leave, he also does not attempt to make things alright. Now, I understand that over the past, I have completely been weak, in the way, I have gone back to him, again and again. Needless to say, he ends up saying a lot of hurtful things to me, for breaking up, but we end up being together nevertheless. Bu it's only coz I made the first attempt, and coz I can't stay without talking to him. I feel that I have completely lost my self-respect, and that reflects in the way he behaves with me, as well. Yes, I have pushed him to a tipping point, at times, but it's only coz I wanted him to understand how much he's hurting me. I am very confused. I just can't stay without talking to him, but I also don't know how to make this work. Also, now he totally takes me for granted, coz he knows that no matter what I says, I would get back to him, in a matter of a few hours. That's how much I crave talking to him. I feel like a total loser. As a result, he insists on doing whatever he wishes to do, and speak very rudely with me. What should I do? Is there nothing to salvage in this relationship? Can I regain his respect, and make him value him? HELP
Hyouri Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 How old are you? How old is your bf? You are in LDR, yes? How do you guys see each other? Do you travel to him? Does he travel to you?
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