Inviv_girl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 To see my facebook again after few months! yesterday I logged in into my facebook for the first time after couple of months and kinda creeping his facebook and we have like 24 mutual friends. He's not friend with me anymore, I just want to creep a little bit as I feel really low and kinda miss him. And Holy crap today I look again and those 20 mutual friends are gone!! most of them are his friends, he deleted my friend and he asked his friend to delete me?? why??? after bloody 7 months of break up?? why did he do that? Somebody please slap me with anything to stop me thinking! But I really wanna know why!! there were no explanation from those people why they delete me! I didnt do anything to them! Not at all! this is really rude!
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Can somebody reply me please........ Im screaming hard right now!
316 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Social media websites are your worst enemy post-break up... You knew ahead of time that whatever you found it was going to hurt you but you chose to creep anyway. I'd need more background info to figure out your ex's true intentions but to me it just sounds like he's just trying to get under your skin... And it worked.
h3braica Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 2 weeks after we broke up i deleted our mutual friends in fb. i erased everything that is connected with him because they reminded me of him. i need to move on. you can't heal when there are things that reminds of your ex so much. you will only hurt yourself seeing his fb with new pictures with his 'new found love'/ rebound. seeing him happy with someone will hurt you even more. it's hard to ignore the man you used to love but it's the only key to move on and protect yourself from being hurt again. i'm at my lowest now, crying, missing him so much, asking myself why's again... but i need to be strong. i'm looking forward to the time that i will smile again w/o any pain in my heart. hope it will be tomorrow. tired of feeling down.
Own Worst Enemy Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 He is either thinking of your feelings (infuriating but perhaps well meant) or he himself doesn't want the reminder of you. Don't take it personally. I know that's hard. I know how much I panic and I have him blocked and just one mutual friend on there. But I try to tell myself that actually it doesn't change anything. He has already done the worst thing, he has already broken my heart and shattered my pride and wasted 2 years of my life. The rest is just insignificant details. 1
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 After 7 months of BU? why the hell he do it now?!!? almost all of our friends deleted me one by one and I cant stand it! this so SO rude. I expect an explanation what did he said to them but I wont contact him to ask.
cdt76 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 It's not rude. Obviously you don't hang out with these people. If you haven't heard from them in two months, what affect does it have on your life anyway? None. My ex had an infant when we started dating and I deleted her and all her friends execpt her mother and father. They put up videos of the baby and pictures and things and even though I can see or be with her, I love that little baby. So don't hate on any of these people. They did you a favor. They saved you the work and time of doing it yourself because eventually, you won't want any contact with them anyway.
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 But some of them are my friends. I'm still very much upset because of his action! asked them to delete me.. really?! I hate him!!
cdt76 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 But they aren't your friends. You haven't talked to them in person in two months...right? I mean so what? Big deal. And if they deleted you, then obviously they are not your friends. Make new ones.
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Most people on Facebook aren't your friends. Most are in it for that 1+. Especially ones with several hundred-1k friends. No way to keep up with them all...it's just for a feeling of internet popularity. Not a big deal. Don't let it get to you.
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 7, 2013 Author Posted February 7, 2013 You know what, you guys are right! f*ck him anyway! I dont need those people in my life. I never did anything wrong to this people. We used to hang out, be friends, now Im living far away and we havent been in touch in person since then. And now my ex- asked them to delete me and they listen so f*ck them they kiss my a$$!!
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