BUBS Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I've been doing well lately... it's been a while since I spoke to him. I successfully avoided telling him happy birthday... but now its creeping up on me. I logged onto instagram for the first time in weeks not thinking and a picture was posted by him, which then lead me to his instagram and then to his facebook (i know im an idiot, be nice please I'm low right now)... he hasnt posted any pictures with her that I can see... my sister is still listed as his sister on facebook, some of our pictures are still up on both. It hurt so bad to see him posting pictures of my dog, of our backyard... everything... and everything in me wants to text him and wish him a happy birthday, I love him, and I've known him for 10 years... I feel awful that I didn't say anything even though I know all of you would say that he dumped me and its perfectly reasonable. I'm breaking down tonight, please help... I havent felt this vulnerable in a while.
cavalier99 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 This is the slippery slope. Stop it..no more FB or instagram. Close computer, shut off phone, and go for a walk or something. You can get thru this. It will pass. You just need to ride it out without self destructing. Stay strong ok? It is like an addict that get an urge. Urges go away if you don't feed them. 1
lollipop29 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 He will understand why you didn't text him happy birthday. On the other hand, opening up the door for communication will only hurt you in the end. You may think it is "mean", but this is the right way to go about it. Keep your head up, distract yourself by hanging out with friends, exercising, and trying new things.
Author BUBS Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Thank you both. I dont know why I'm struggling so much tonight with the whole thing, it comes in dramatic waves lately. I just want it to be over with already.
Inviv_girl Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I know how you feel! I just creep on my ex- facebook (like you, maybe people would say Im an idiot..indeed I am for creeping out his fb eventhough he is not on my friendlist anymore) I found out all his friends which is our mutual friends deleted me. He deleted my friend.. I mean really..why did he do that?? what did he telling them about me! no explanation, just delete.. I feel like somebody just beat me up!
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