muggins Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 So here is the basics. Being seeing girl for about a month now. We have been friends for a while. Even when she had a boyfriend i kind of felt she was into me. She initiates most of the contact texts me most mornings and asks to meet up and when we do we snuggle and make out a lot. The other day she asked me why i never stay over and told me she wanted me too so i did. Trouble is when i did get into bed and tried to escalate things she stopped me. This isn't all im after and am actually quite into her but would like to take it to the next level. Trouble is i have heard that when a girl withholds sex from you but only wants to snuggle and kiss she is using you for the attention. Could really use some advice here as I hate the feeling that someone might be using me. I know i sound kind of wimpy but that's not the sort of thing i would do to her or anyone for that matter. Female advice would be much appreciated the more honest the better. Just need to know so i can get on with my life.
ja123 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 How many times a week do you see her? I wouldn't push for sex, but I'd let her know that you're too excited to just cuddle in bed, and for her to let you know when she's ready. Then I wouldn't stay over, or I'd sleep on the couch.
ls32ssibm Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I wouldn't be worried about her making you wait for the "first time". Once you actually do it, if she is still withholding regularly, RUN. Go check out my very first threads. Was in the situation. It's miserable and you will grow to resent her.
Maneater Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Some women do just want to wait. Nothing wrong yet. It's still slightly early. I wouldn't freak out yet.
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