Emb123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 My ex of 6 years did choose porn over me. He got so addicted that if I left the house for 10 minutes he would watch it, it got really bad towards the end to the point where he wouldn't even touch me anymore and could only get off with porn. That was def a problem. My current boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life, we have sex everyday sometimes multiples times and it's always amazing. A couple of months ago i was using his computer and some porn literally popped up, I was mortified because of my past experience with my ex so I flipped! He promised not to watch it anymore like every guy always says and of course he did. After that we got in to a couple of pretty big fights about it. Finally we have come to a resolution. He said he would try to really keep it to a minimum and I have decided not to let it bother me too much, unless it turns in to a problem and starts affecting our relationship. Every person has some form of a bad habit and some flaws, it's just if you think it's worth it enough to look past them and be with the person. Also, I would recommend you watch porn too. I've started watching it every now and then too and it kind of makes it better. That sounds kind of weird I'm sure, but I think part of us getting mad at our boyfriends watching it is because we feel jealous and left out. Now I can say "hey, well guess what? I watched porn today too!" haha
Emb123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 And no he's not ok with me looking at porn. Screw that, he doesn't care that you don't like him watching it so I wouldn't care if he doesn't want you watching it. Watch it and get a vibrator too. Sometimes people just need a little taste of their own medicine.
smokey bear Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Screw that, he doesn't care that you don't like him watching it so I wouldn't care if he doesn't want you watching it. Watch it and get a vibrator too. Sometimes people just need a little taste of their own medicine. Yeah i would agree with this lol, porn is a fantasy, if you make the fantasy a reality it normally loses its buzz, another method is doing it back to him, do what he does, 2 pumps, leave him unsatisfied, pretend you are, go watch porn and play with your vibrator. I would never normally recommend this, but if you've tried communication and it isnt working sometimes a taste of your own medicine does work, good luck.
Emb123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Yeah i would agree with this lol, porn is a fantasy, if you make the fantasy a reality it normally loses its buzz, another method is doing it back to him, do what he does, 2 pumps, leave him unsatisfied, pretend you are, go watch porn and play with your vibrator. I would never normally recommend this, but if you've tried communication and it isnt working sometimes a taste of your own medicine does work, good luck. Yah, I know it is a little immature to do something like this but ever since I haven't made a big deal about the porn and I've watched it too I think it lost its edge. My boyfriend hardly watches it anymore.
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