mzdolphin Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 He told me he was divorced. We had dated years ago, when he was single. It was now more than 15 years later. The chemistry was still there. He was living in another city from his wife. He had moved (for a job) from Ohio to Florida and then to Virginia. His wife remained in Ohio. So we carried on for months before I found out he was still married. And when confronted he claimed his marriage was over. Documents (house deed being transferred from both their names to her maiden name only) seemed to support his lie. Both those were business decisions. He was very married, although not happy in his marriage. Even after I told his wife, he continued to pursue me. But the truth is he lied to me about being divorced and didn't care how that would impact me. He dragged me into the affair and I can't ever get over that.
Bailey14 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 He was the first man I ever loved. He was 17, I was 16. I lost my virginity to him. We went our separate ways......he married, I married. His marriage lasted, mine did not. Over the years we have met for lunch, met for dinner and then in August of 2009(45 years after we were FWB) we both went to our high school class reunion. Something clicked and we have been "together" ever since. We had never spoke of loving each other(although I always thought he was also my first love)until this newest phase of our relationship. He tells me he loves me all the time and there is no doubt in my mind that I am deeply in love with him. There are very few people I would turn my life upside down for and I know it will never happen but, I would turn my life upside down for him.
a_roman_holiday Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 We met at work. I was new and he was the first person to really get to know me and include me in lunches and such. We were friends (though I always found him very attractive) for 8 months. Slowly our emails to each other began getting more... sexual. We decided to give it a shot.
WhatsTheAnswer Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 Can I be honest? I don't really understand anything that stevie 23 has said for months. did they meet? it was affair? she is still with partner? she even said that even if MM had wanted to move to her, she woud have stayed with partner. i don't get it I could be completely off base and I know this is someone that posts A LOT but honestly- I see a cake eater that wraps herself in the martyr / victim role. and even when she comments on other threads- it is always about her. never anything for the OP. I am new here. don't know the rules really of what I can say or not. But honestly, this needs to be said. She is out of control in her delusions of her x-mm... I feel like she comes up with these crazy topics to try and keep her affair alive for her...and it was hardly an affair. From what she has said on various posts she is a lesbian that got involved in a EA with a man in his 60's (i'm guessing she is in her 30's?)from America. She is in Australia. She never met the guy in person or had any kind of physical relationship with him at all. They just shared a love of music on a forum. He is married. She is in a WW relationship. But she can confirm this.
WhatsTheAnswer Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 She was a neighbor that hung out with my wife. She was 12 years younger than us. She would bring her kids over to swim etc. Then she started to hang out at our house at night and have drinks a few times a week. I never really paid attention to her before that, just thought of her as just another neighborhood soccer mom. Then she started to hang at house more and more to get away from her verbally abusive husband. The more we hung out the more i got to know her and found her to be intriguing. I thought she was a shy quiet, woman but she was far from that. She never out right flirted with me but she was cracking jokes and making sarcastic remarks. The three of us would hang out more and more and we would drink. One day she called the house and I picked up. I had been feeling a vibe of sorts and I asked her if i was crazy or is there something we both feel? She said yes. I agreed to meet her that night and talk about it. We ended up kissing ini the car and so it took off from there. We would steal feels and kisses when she would come over. We never had full on sex at that point. we started to meet for lunch when we could steal some kisses talk about sex. She stopped the relationship several times. The we would flirt more. Her and husband moved an hour away from here. After two years of being gone I had not seen her all that time. We found each other on FB it didn't take long to get the magic back and we started the PA for real at that point. We continued it for over two years we were hot and heavy. She left her husband and wanted me to leave when i didn't move fast enough she met a new single guy and that was the end of the A.
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