KJBA2816 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Hello, I haven't posted on here in a while because I feel I am finally over my ex and I have moved on. He contacted me before christmas and I cut off contact just after new year after he asked me to delete any evidence he had contacted me from my phone so his new gf didn't find out so I just thought no, I will go NC. That was 3 weeks ago, I haven't thought twice about my decision and I made steps such as deleting and blocking him and his family on facebook and moved on, focussed on other things. Tonight, I get a message from a girl I deleted that had a connection to him and she called me 'sad' for deleting her and she said the lies I was spreading wasn't nice about him and then his sister piped in too. Firstly, at the end of this relationship he was physically violent to me, he was emotionally abusive the entire time but he was on a few occasions psychically violent. He told me he had told his parents and they were disappointed in him and I was like ok.. Now because I left him and said I did not want to be friends, he is trying to make my life miserable. He is denying ever hitting me and I am getting hassle from other people, old friends he left behind when we started dating he is now talking to them even though he talked serious cr*p about them a few months ago. Most people believe me, and he has actually text me before saying he was sorry and he turned into a monster etc but now I seem to be getting hassle from people for lying. Is this my fault? I really don't know what to do anymore. I don't talk about him or to him anymore, as far as I am concerned I am over him and done with him but weeks later I get called a liar? I am from a small town so news travels fast and I guess someone told someone who told everyone. He was a terrible human being to me, and in the end he left me. I feel like I am finally getting back on track and forgetting him now this? Not to mention I am sick just now and I can't cope with everything. I don't think about him, discuss him or acknowledge him or his family anymore. I have moved on, I just feel stuck in this rut :/ He knows what he did, he is just denying it all. I feel so used and betrayed by him and his family after everything I did but I have accepted its happened and moved on. I just want people to stop giving me hassle. Whats his problem?! What can I do?! Should I move? - just fed up.
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