Rosearm Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Some of you may remember quite a while ago now I came here seeking advice. The summary is.. I used to use the services of an escort, of whom I became close which later resulted in me lending her some money, I spent almost a year chasing her for the re-payments. I caught up with her and finally got the full amount back. A lot of you on here advised me she was simply playing me and we were not really friends, I refused to believe it but after a while I began to realise how right you all were. Now I see the little cow in a total different light and I can see what she was doing. Although time has passed I am still very angry at what she did.
MidwestUSA Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Never give a cow more money than the milk is worth!
JamesM Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 I don't know if I posted on your threads in the past. You remind me of someone who considered an escort his friend and he posted here thinking she thought the same. Scott comes to mind. Anyhow, consider it a lesson learned. I understand the anger. You gave of yourself emotionally, financially and probably physically. You invested in her and expected some returns. All she did was take, take, and take. I understand the anger, pain and sadness that this leaves. Hopefully, this lesson will teach you something for your future. Consider yourself lucky. It could have gone down so wrong in many ways.
Author Rosearm Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Yes James. It was Scottie, left but rejoined the forum. I am so angry and the way she used me and took advantage and then lied to my face. I got my revenge on her but she seems to have come up smelling of roses. She's got a huge amount of friends, she goes out regularly, she has her hair done regularly, she's had some massive tattoo done and she looks really happy...meanwhile I am full of anger.
BetheButterfly Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 (edited) Some of you may remember quite a while ago now I came here seeking advice. The summary is.. I used to use the services of an escort, of whom I became close which later resulted in me lending her some money, I spent almost a year chasing her for the re-payments. I caught up with her and finally got the full amount back. A lot of you on here advised me she was simply playing me and we were not really friends, I refused to believe it but after a while I began to realise how right you all were. Now I see the little cow in a total different light and I can see what she was doing. Although time has passed I am still very angry at what she did. She is not a cow. She is a human being and even though she played you, that's no reason to dehumanize her! She has sadly learned to take advantage of men who buy her body for sex, and to separate the act completely from love and emotions. Edited February 5, 2013 by BetheButterfly
BetheButterfly Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I don't know if I posted on your threads in the past. You remind me of someone who considered an escort his friend and he posted here thinking she thought the same. Scott comes to mind. Anyhow, consider it a lesson learned. I understand the anger. You gave of yourself emotionally, financially and probably physically. You invested in her and expected some returns. All she did was take, take, and take. I understand the anger, pain and sadness that this leaves. Hopefully, this lesson will teach you something for your future. Consider yourself lucky. It could have gone down so wrong in many ways. Loaning money is not giving of oneself. When I give someone something, I don't expect it back. If he were truly giving of himself, he would have given her the money. As for investing himself emotionally, people do that, but when people separate love from sex, it's bound to hurt someone.
Author Rosearm Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 I started another thread because I could not find this one. I got my revenge on her by telling her family what she did for a living, it split her and her partner up and really messed her life up. After two years of no contact we spoke again last week. Apparently I'd been writing stuff about her and she wanted to know why. She said that I genuinely believed she had bumped me off but she insisted she didn't, she was getting hassle from partner and was in debt. She also still insisted that we were friends, she said "I thought you were my friend" She said she did care for me and at the time when I tried to take my own life she was really concerned and confided in her boss. (I never knew that) We chatted for a bit, asked how we were and what we'd been doing and I apologised for everything, she said "thank you" and "it was nice to hear from you" I am not sure what to make of all this.
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