Almond_Joy Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Hi everyone, I had a discussion about something that was bothering me in the relationship with my boyfriend this weekend. The discussion went well, but today he tweeted about the issue. He's told me several times he has a Twitter account but because I don't use Twitter I guess he assumes I would never check his Twitter. His tweets are publicly viewable so anyone can see them. He doesn't refer to me by name, but mutual friends and acquaintances of ours follow his tweets. So now these people are privy to our relationship issues. This makes me furious. Am I overreacting? Also, should I tell him I check his tweets?
MidwestUSA Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 You're not overreacting at all. He just took the first step in shutting down communication between you. Seriously, if it were me, this is a deal breaker! 1
jlindemann Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 I think in a few days, I would create myself a twitter account and follow him. He's your boyfriend after all. Then you can mention to him you saw it there (legitimately), rather than "spying" to find the info. although it's public information, looking up his twitter without having your own is kind of spying. 2
Author Almond_Joy Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 That's kind of how I saw it Lindlemann. I was so angry I couldn't wait, I called him on it. He apologized and understood why I was so upset. I guess I should make an account, just so he remembers that I do see what he tweets. Even if I don't at this point, I don't think this will happen again. Thanks for the responses.
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