Krieger Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Well I am 29 year-old male who, due to many factors,has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex.Did casual dating a few times when I was in high school/college (as in we go out 1-2 times just for fun, never get physical at all) but didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues (mostly due to massive shyness/social-anxiety problems). I've managed to turn things around a bit and can talk to anyone. I am a different person now I just had to look at this way no one cares. I do put myself in social situations and meet people with no problem. I know I can ask for girl out I have done it before. I have gone out on dates but only 6 or 8 but nothing clicked. The longest I have dated the same girl was probably for about 6 months or so and it wasn't even anything serious. She was this girl I know from work and just got out of a relationship with her bf and wanted to hang out so we did. The only thing we did was have sex and I lost my virginity to her. Yea she was not very good in bed at all she just kind of laid there and I had to do all the work. I tried to get her to try new things but she was not interested. I did not ever climax once no matter what she did. To be fair there was no passion at all but still I want a redo. Now I am at the point a year ago or so decided to go back to college a 2nd time .My job is OK but it a dead end job and it is nothing I am passion at about doing forever. Retail sucks and I do not like it at all so it was time to do something new. Working night crew for the rest of my there no wear to go in retail. My job just does not pay well like $18 an hour will not feed a family even working full time. That being said I am still going to work full time and have been taking class at a community college right now. I want to going to Nursing or be a physical therapist assistant. If I go into nursing it will go for my Bachelor of Science in Nursing. The physical therapist assistant will take a shorter amount of time. So I have a lot on going on and am busy studying,working and college I do not have time to date at all. I never sleep and if I do it 4 hours a day seven days a week thank god for my Adderall even though I hate it. I want to be successful so I can have a girlfriend and feel like I have a good job I like going to and can support a family on. I want a wife and kids and a family and all that but as I get older I just do not see it happening for me. This makes me sad in away seeing that I want to be a dad in all. I'm a little concern about this. I'm not a great looking guy but I don't consider myself ugly either. I'm not a geek or anything like that. I go out and try to meet people. I just can't figure out why this is not happening for me. I don't think it's my personality because more than one had girls telling me I'm a really nice person.
JuneJulySeptember Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 1) That one girl you referred to. She was a GF, or at least sorta one. 2) There are other men here who are close to your age who haven't even had that. So, you are not alone. Stick around and learn some things.
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