abc1234 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) Hi all, What things help dealing with these problems in a relationship Edited February 4, 2013 by abc1234 to detailed
will1988 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Hi all, What things help dealing with these problems in a relationship Could you be more specific about your story so we can adress your problem?
Author abc1234 Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 Could you be more specific about your story so we can adress your problem? Well my current GF met me when she was with her ex and for a while she was going back and forth between us. Eventually we ended up together, but she's going to see him soon as they share the same friendship group, we had a little rocky patch recently and tbh he is a really nice guy, doesn't really put a foot wrong anywhere and I'm worried when she sees him it will all happen again!
MidwestUSA Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Well my current GF met me when she was with her ex and for a while she was going back and forth between us. Eventually we ended up together, but she's going to see him soon as they share the same friendship group, we had a little rocky patch recently and tbh he is a really nice guy, doesn't really put a foot wrong anywhere and I'm worried when she sees him it will all happen again! She cheated on him, she'll cheat on you.
gonefishin Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 It's kinda funny .. This was said to me .. I was asking when we broke up what If she meets someone else and I was told simply .. She could meet someone when I'm there too.... It's true though.. You can't really worry or get to hung up on it .. If she's gonna do it it could be anytime not just because of this ex it could be anyone .. But talk to her maybe voice your worries .. If u don't have trust it's. tough start ...... Let me know what u think ... Remember u can't control her so u kinda just go with it and maybe trust her our will drive yourself insane worrying and trying to catch her out!
mano Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 there is always a reason behind insecurities n over thinking, u need to solve the problem thats all, confront her about this issue n that it makes u feel insecure
Author abc1234 Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Thanks for the replies. Today I found out my gf cheated on my again with her ex bf. I ended it even though it kills me deep down inside as I still love her. But as I've been told you have to have some self respect and leave. She's a nasty price of work, I met her whilst she was with someone and she played us both going back and forth ending it with one of us then going to the other. This happened quite a few times until she finally ended it with him but then she ended with me saying she hated who's she's become and needed time on her own to find/be happy with herself again. This was all small talk as I found out she went back to her ex within 5 days! He never knew about us throughout this ordeal, so I wrote him a letter as I felt like he actually deserved to have the option to decide for himself if he wanted to be with her. They stayed together as he is smitten with her and would never leave! After a few months later she contacted me again apologiesing and we spoke. The next day after she stayed over mine she broke up with him saying it wasn't the same etc. we slowly rekindled things and I was really cautious as putting myself in a position were I could get hurt again. She promised to never hurt me again buy obviously that was all crap too as actions speak louder than words I'm disappointed and feel let down by the only woman I've ever loved. So heartbreaking. Abc
denxnis Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I'll bet you think she looks really good and is very cutesy around you? Been there done that brother. Take the trash out, try not to talk about her and just go to the gym and work on being successful. Your dignity is important here and will permeate throughout your life. If you just walk away now I promise you will be glad you did so a few years from now. Someone at my UC recently got stabbed because of a love triangle like this - don't let some white trash girl dictate your happiness. I would just learn from this and make sure the next girl you meet doesn't share similar traits as this one.
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