Caldespair Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 I thought I would get a bit of a reprieve from all my misery with a 49er win. Well, such is life as I have learned. The quick 20 plus year marriage, 2 teenagers, had what I thought was an amazing life with my wife. Possible 3rd party involved on her side Only 2 months since Ive been out of house after our argument. Tried mc, she only went once. I do IC once a week After many times at trying to work things out with her, and getting completely shut down from her, I feel I must move strongly to protect myself legally and financially. It goes against my feelings for her, but I must deal with what is and she does not want to be married to be any longer. My 16 year old told me tonight that "mom says you guys are getting d cause you dont love her anymore". This is complete bull s@@@ but thats her sotry line she is spewing out to people, mutual friends. My 2 daughters know that truth - they know their mom is pulling the plug. I sometimes feel like this whole mess is like a bad dream, like a misunderstanding. I feel like her pride is such that she cannot look at herself and acknowlege ANY fault at all, thus the D. Venting here. 49ers next year!
foolish1 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Ugh! Sorry to hear that. I guess I'm reconciling my marriage. Although it doesn't feel that way. We are staying together for now even though he pulled the "I love you but I'm not in live with you. He said he felt guilted into staying with me. All the while never showing any emotion through this entire process. So I don't feel he loves me I don't see it in his eyes anymore since he drew up divorce papers. But I do know I cant count on forever with him. Now I'm trying to rebuild bridges and reach out to friends and family and let people be there for me. Just know you are not alone and if millions of people can make it through a divorce so can we!
Feelin Frisky Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Great comeback by the 49ers. That "safety" at the end was the mist chicken shi+ way to win and my brother wouldn't get any more love from me for not booting it like a man and at least giving me on hail Mary. Fooey what a cheesy ending. It depressed me and I'm a Giants fan. Buck up. But don't get your hopes up for next year. NY Big Blue will be back in the saddle again.
Meatballsmom Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Similar story to what one of my workmates put her H thru. Twenty years later, H is happily remarried, and my co-workers kids want nothing to do with their mother, all contact with her teenage grandchildren is forbidden. Christmass vacation is spent in LV to avoid their abscence. I am a big Bengal fan and therefore not in any way a 49er lover, that being said, I felt they were underprepared, starting with the first play of the game. Still I feel the officiating Jobed them, so badly I now put the NFL in the same category as professinal wrestling. I looked it up in the rules book, there is nothing said about defensive two hand grabbing. Holding yes, Grabbing NO
worldgonewrong Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Great comeback by the 49ers. That "safety" at the end was the mist chicken shi+ way to win and my brother wouldn't get any more love from me for not booting it like a man and at least giving me on hail Mary. Fooey what a cheesy ending. It depressed me and I'm a Giants fan. Buck up. But don't get your hopes up for next year. NY Big Blue will be back in the saddle again. It's the Super Bowl. And the 'safety' shaved precious time off the clock. There are no "gimmee's" in pro football. Go Ravens! (sorry, Caldespair.)
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