Samantha89 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Hey there! It's the first time I write in the forum, I read many of your posts and it had already helped me. My situation is quite silly to be honest. I lived in the UK for a year and met this guy. He is the loveliest guy I've ever met, but also the busiest one. It seems like he lives for his job. We dated for a few times, and it was very special for me, but then I moved back to spain. I tried to keep in touch with him writing mails, but his answers were always short and late, so I stopped writing him. A year later I came back to London for good, I got my new phone with my english number, and download whatsapp with it. I don't know if it was casuality, or he saw I had whatsapp with the english number and tied the dots, but he wrote me a mail, out of the blue asking how I was. I never replied. I know this is childish, I shouldn't be thinking about it, but it's been almost two years since I last saw him, and six months since he wrote me that email, and I still think of him! I try not to, I really do, but now I want to write him and tell him I'm back, and ask him if he wants to have a coffe with me... But then I think about it twice, and I realize how weird is to write him after such a long time... What to do??? What to do??
Echo000 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Not weird- go for it. Just do it. Could be the best decision you have ever made. There is NOTHING wrong that could result from you contacting him.
ja123 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Does he live in London, too? If so, contact him! Just say that you only just saw his email ... I know it's lame, but! Contact him! Let us know how it goes! Good Luck!!!
apple OR orange Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 if you contact him its sex only for him it sounds like.... just so you know.
Lani Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Does he live in London, too? If so, contact him! Just say that you only just saw his email ... I know it's lame, but! Contact him! Let us know how it goes! Good Luck!!! I'd recommend not saying that. It is really lame, and he'll know it's not true. Just get in touch with him, and don't mention the previous message you didn't respond to. If he brings it up, then just casually say you weren't sure how you felt about it so you didn't respond. Just go for it. It's worth a shot
Author Samantha89 Posted February 5, 2013 Author Posted February 5, 2013 Thank you guys, I think I needed a little push! just wrote him saying I was sorry I never replied, but I was in a point where I needed to settle down in my new life. I didn't ask to see him though... just that I was wondering how he is!
Lani Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Thank you guys, I think I needed a little push! just wrote him saying I was sorry I never replied, but I was in a point where I needed to settle down in my new life. I didn't ask to see him though... just that I was wondering how he is! Has he responded?
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Perfect! Let him make the next move now. If he doesn't in the next 1-2 years, well then you'll have your answer. If he does great. See where it goes.
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