Jay112 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Hi so I really need ur advice on this so... I broke up with my girlfriend now ex about two years ago. I was a very immature and young adult at the time and took her for granted for thoes two years. i guess i fell in love with myself. I think I always loved her but needed to find out if I really loved her through time. I never told her or gave her any oxygen. I showed no emotion. She still had major feelings for me the whole time just up until we met up a few months ago and we were so flirty. She started showing less afection then the tables turned very fast. I told her how I really felt about her and it all back fired. She became distant and I became clingy. Anyway..I really do love her and she is very angry at me and sais it's over we will never be togethor etc etc leave me alone. After a lot of pain and heartbreak I finally stopped contacting her to try to save us. It has been four months no contact I miss her to death:/ last night was hard for me it happens. But anyway here is what my plans are. I want to give her a large teddy bear(white) for valentines day, like leave it at her door or just get it sent or somthing Orr...theirs a swedish house mafia concert at msg I love them i got an extra ticket..should I ask her to come?, that is march 1st a few days down the road from V day. Or the last thing I can think of is her B day. It's on April 6th which would put another month on the no contact list lol. Does no contact even work. Hm Soooo....Should I do the teddy thing on valentines day, her birthday, or ask her to the concert. Her birthday being the furthest down the road. What do I do what do I do. I need help
drpepper1886 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Hi so I really need ur advice on this so... I broke up with my girlfriend now ex about two years ago. I was a very immature and young adult at the time and took her for granted for thoes two years. i guess i fell in love with myself. I think I always loved her but needed to find out if I really loved her through time. I never told her or gave her any oxygen. I showed no emotion. She still had major feelings for me the whole time just up until we met up a few months ago and we were so flirty. She started showing less afection then the tables turned very fast. I told her how I really felt about her and it all back fired. She became distant and I became clingy. Anyway..I really do love her and she is very angry at me and sais it's over we will never be togethor etc etc leave me alone. After a lot of pain and heartbreak I finally stopped contacting her to try to save us. It has been four months no contact I miss her to death:/ last night was hard for me it happens. But anyway here is what my plans are. I want to give her a large teddy bear(white) for valentines day, like leave it at her door or just get it sent or somthing Orr...theirs a swedish house mafia concert at msg I love them i got an extra ticket..should I ask her to come?, that is march 1st a few days down the road from V day. Or the last thing I can think of is her B day. It's on April 6th which would put another month on the no contact list lol. Does no contact even work. Hm Soooo....Should I do the teddy thing on valentines day, her birthday, or ask her to the concert. Her birthday being the furthest down the road. What do I do what do I do. I need help Don't contact her, move on with your life. You cannot control her or her feelings. Chalk this one up as a learning experience and maybe sometime down the road she'll come back around. I wouldn't count on it though. Best of luck!
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 2 Hopes: 'Bob' and 'No'. Do not do anything for Valentine's day. Do not do anything for her birthday. She has made it extremely and perfectly clear - you are not in the running, and never will be again. Give it up, and move on. You might have 'matured and changed' - but guess what? So has she. She's moved on and wants different things - life hasn't stood still for her, you know. She's well over you. Your turn. 1
Survivor12 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 She asked you to leave her alone. So why would ignoring her wishes be a good thing? 1
Droplet Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 She knows you love her, you told her many times : no need to prove it to her, she believes you but made it clear that she is not interested. Respect her wishes or she will resent you. Time to move on.
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