MissLY Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Honestly, does it really matter whether the guy OR girl asks you out on the first date? Let's say a guy gets a girl's number, reaches out to her and expresses interest, but doesn't ask her out right away. Is it really always the guy's job to do this? I mean, if he's unsure of her interest towards him, wouldn't it make things easier and better if the girl suggested they hang out? The same goes for reaching out after the first date. Does it really matter whether the girl or guy reaches out first to say they "had a great time" and "would like to see you again"? I feel that in many cases (myself included) the guy may be interested in the girl but chooses not to reach out because he was unsure of her interest towards him on the date, and would rather see if she contacts him. What do you guys think?
JuneJulySeptember Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I think it's a big difference. I a girl asked me out (never happened), then I would think that all the work is done, all I'd have to do was close the deal. There is the possibility that she wouldn't like my personality, and still reject me, but I would know the attraction is there and that is the biggest hurdle. If I ask a girl out and she says yes, my work is FAR from done. And the chances that she has no interest at all are still very strong. 1
superb Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Honestly, does it really matter whether the guy OR girl asks you out on the first date? Let's say a guy gets a girl's number, reaches out to her and expresses interest, but doesn't ask her out right away. Is it really always the guy's job to do this? I mean, if he's unsure of her interest towards him, wouldn't it make things easier and better if the girl suggested they hang out? The same goes for reaching out after the first date. Does it really matter whether the girl or guy reaches out first to say they "had a great time" and "would like to see you again"? I feel that in many cases (myself included) the guy may be interested in the girl but chooses not to reach out because he was unsure of her interest towards him on the date, and would rather see if she contacts him. What do you guys think? I think men sometimes like a woman to make the first moves. Some men are afraid as I've clearly read on this forum 1000 times.
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