SarahSwep Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 My man and I have been working through some issues in the bedroom. We had a major breakthrough in communication about a month ago and things have improved ... but i just feel as though we are at a stand still. He told me that we weren't done talking about things but hasn't brought it up yet. I don't want to bring it up again ... I really don't want to nag on this subject but I don't think that just talking is the answer. I want to tackle it head on ... in the bedroom itself. I think that before bringing up anything verbally again I want to put in a full effort. I want any ideas on a sexy way to instigate sex. How to put him in the mood. What to say without sounding like I'm trying too hard! I'm open to any ideas~ Thanks! Swep
horny chick Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 I was wondering this myself recently and so I tried something and it worked! Be warned, it's not subtle. My bf said he was really tired (his signal to me that I won't be getting any) so he went into the bathroom to get ready for bed. I quickly put on my sexiest pushup bra, thong, and thigh high hose, dimmed the lights, and pushed my panties aside and started playing around with my vibrator in bed. He came out and saw me looking sexy and touching myself and he instantly got an erection and attacked me! In retrospect I realize -- if that had failed, that would have been a little embarrassing. Life is about chances tho, and men are not subtle creatures.
KissMyTiara Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 Go out to a record store and buy the newest Morcheeba album. Then get on your hands and knees in a white tank top - braless - and little tiny shorts, and scrub the floor. Make sure he walks in with a rear view when the music is playing. I promise you, he won't be too tired to play....
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