cottom Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Im in my final year university doing engineering so there are no girls for a mile around there. I dont live in university either, i commute everyday from my house one town over so i am missing out on the girls there. I work a job where there are only guys who work with me so i cant meet a girl there (its a newpaper store so only elderly customers). Also all my feiends went off to their own unis so i only have one left back home and he doesnt know any girka, we try to go out to bars etc but girls much prefer the guya who are in large social groups. Im decent looking, girls always comment on my good looks, i try to chat to girls on facebook but girla find that creepy having a random guy chatting online...i have no way at all of finding and meeting a girl. Does anybody have any solutions i could try? Im 20 and i can be a bit shallow too, i want a girl at least 7-8/10 in looks but with a personality also, all girls like this though are always in a relatioslnship...the ones who arent are the whores who are not gf material or the bitches/fat/ugly ones which i dont want to end up with
Author cottom Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 A tad more info, i met a girl when i was 16 and spent 2 years with her till she left cause she wanted to see what other guys are out there and not settl yet, then at 18 i met a girl at my old workplace and we were together for 2 years till she went uni and wanted to see what othrr guys were out there. I found that girls do not tend to want to be with people my age. The 20 year olds want a guy who is about 24-5, the 19 year olds are second year uni so they are more concenteated on passing than relationships, the 18 year olds are first year uni and want to have sex with everyone cause tv tells them too. Anyone younger i believe is to young fo a 20 year old.
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 ...A 'bit' shallow'.....?! Then I guess you'll have to wait until you get older, become more mature, and not be so insulting towards other people of whom you obviously have low opinions, but who are just as entitled to a loving, affectionate and genuine relationship with a 'nice' guy as you are with a 'nice' girl. You need to grow up. A lot more. Before you're actually mature enough to have a relationship. 1
Author cottom Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Why is it immature that im not attracted to them just because they are also capable of a loving relationahip too? I have family that are all over 25 stone and i have battled with eating disorders as i am terrified of ending up like them also so you cannot judge me for not liking overweight women...same as im sure you do not like people of the same or opposite sex dependant on what your sexual orientation is.
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 This is no way to talk about people. It makes you sound positively moronic. the whores who are not gf material or the bitches/fat/ugly ones Do you call members of your family those names? Refer to people more decently, and you might get more responses.
sid3 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Yeah I agree with TaraM. Lose the labels you put on women. You obviously have little experience with them. Your need for an 8/10 screams of needing validation from having a partner with above average looks. Your thread title is misleading as you dont really want to meet a good girl but rather a hot girl. I have no other advice other than to say take a better look at yourself. And at twenty, why would you want a good girl
Dazed_Confused1989 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Wow...I don't think you actually deserve to be in a relationship from what you just said.
Juicy Fruit Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Yes, I agree with all above. You are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
Big Blue Box Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Im in my final year university doing engineering so there are no girls for a mile around there. I dont live in university either, i commute everyday from my house one town over so i am missing out on the girls there. I work a job where there are only guys who work with me so i cant meet a girl there (its a newpaper store so only elderly customers). Also all my feiends went off to their own unis so i only have one left back home and he doesnt know any girka, we try to go out to bars etc but girls much prefer the guya who are in large social groups. Im decent looking, girls always comment on my good looks, i try to chat to girls on facebook but girla find that creepy having a random guy chatting online...i have no way at all of finding and meeting a girl. Does anybody have any solutions i could try? Im 20 and i can be a bit shallow too, i want a girl at least 7-8/10 in looks but with a personality also, all girls like this though are always in a relatioslnship...the ones who arent are the whores who are not gf material or the bitches/fat/ugly ones which i dont want to end up with If you want to be shallow, that is your prerogative and your right. However, don't expect women or girls to lower their standards to date you if they feel you are too "ugly." That is unless you are a hypocrite and if that is so then I can see why females would see you as creepy.
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