supermanthatho Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I'll try keep it as brief as I can - Girlfriend got pregnant end of february 2012 - She went mentally crazy, Started craving attention, started being insecure etc - We scheduled an abortion in March (Both agreed on it, Either way I would of been there) - She ended up having a miscarriage a few days before the abortion. - Mental state became worse. - She had an implanon planted in her arm. She went even more insane - Broke up with me start of june - I pleaded with her to remove the implanon since it was doing her head in even more, acting like she doesnt know who she is - I went no contact, However she would text me to see how i was but I ignored all contact - End of august I broke no contact, She told me how much she's missed me so I took it as a sign to get her back since she was thinking about us again - Pleaded with her to remove implanon and she agreed it drove her worse so she had it removed start of september - She became a LOT more better (mental state wise) - We hung out all the time (thought this would get her back, and had no drama when we saw each other at all) - December she said to me she feels like she's almost there with us - Start of january she became abusive and called me names and said bad things which I didnt deserve, she even wrote bad stuff about me on facebook where everyone can see. It was so weird and unlike her at all to be this way - So I decided about the 5th of january to start no contact again and it's been like that ever since. She hasnt even tried to contact me. Nothing I still want her back. I want the girl I knew back. This girl isn't her. Her friends have caught up with me telling me they're all concerned for her and she's extremely unlike herself. Her sister called me up and told me everything has gone disastrous at home because of her too. I dont know what to do. I dont know if there's anything to do. I'm still in love with her. What can I do? She seems to crave attention from guys and she is a hot girl so it comes easy. She also acts like shes so happy on facebook (Yes i know, bad to check her profile but I cant help it)
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 You can't fix her. Go No Contact Stay No Contact. Whatever, this is no good. you know it. Just read your post. She's crazy - hasn't changed, has by all accounts got worse, and only she can fix things. She's with her family. Let them deal with it.
Njeanne Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 This sounds like a very unhealty relationship. If I were you I would stay no contact and heal. You do not want a person back like this, it will only hurt you in a short run. Only she can heal herself by looking for professional help, sounds like she is very depressed. I should know, my mom got attacks like that towards my father but he stays though. It's very difficult and you might love her and care for her but she needs to seek help.
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