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What is your "silliest" deal breaker?


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We still had to wash.

 

In the middle ages there was no such requirement, and our pungeant smell was considered 'virile'.

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If they are not at all handy. I've fixed up a couple of my homes, so I can do some basic drywall, tiling, change out the toilet pump, things like that.

 

If a guy needs to call ANOTHER guy over to set up his cable, or change a light bulb....nah....

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I cannot be with a man who smokes - anything.

He cannot chew with his mouth open. I can't stand that sound.

Fanny packs. Enough said.

Smelling like a high school boy's gym locker room. Axe? No. Get real cologne, or don't bother with scents.

Men wearing too much jewelry is always a no-no for me. A necklace, ok. An earring, ok. More? No.

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I've been told it is silly, but I find a man without a healthy appetite to be a deal breaker. I just have no tolerance for a guy who sits there picking at his food, hates everything, can't ever find anything he wants to eat in a restaurant, is a vegetarian/vegan, or just eats like a quarter of a plate of food. I want a man with a healthy and diverse appetite and I want him devouring it like its his last meal on earth. Call me crazy but if he's devouring his food like that then he'll probably devour me later....

 

I have a feeling we'd get along just fine.

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Being narrowminded. Which isn't very openminded, which is why it's silly.

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Guys who think you're a washed up old hag after age 30, or if you've ever had a one night stand or a FWB.

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That's your silliest deal breaker? Really?

 

The more time I spend on this damn vacuum also known as LS...

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I got good genes, but I am very proud of my age, so the moment I tell the guy I am 32 - yeah, you can tell a LOT about a guy based on his reaction! I have a Venezuelan friend who can do the most impressive and sexy : "yeah, I'm 32, how about yourself : eyelashes and slight hips move:"! She cracks me up soooo bad !!

 

guys who would watch every little detail about yourself - the nails and nail polish, to see if you have recent mani, if I'm wearing foundation or powder, color of your stockings... and if they start discussing the color of my lipstick and the fabric of my top... OMG, I am so out of there!!! I had a male colleague ask me " That's a Chanel 521, isn't it?" - nail polish color... that freaked me out so bad !!! No, the guy isn't gay, his poor dates, talk about high maintenance!

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The more time I spend on this damn vacuum also known as LS...

 

Isn't it great that everyone has a voice? :laugh:

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No, but I hate a man judging me about how I take care of myself. I used to work for L'Oreal in Paris, I am taking good care of myself and I enjoy it... I sort of like to appreciated for the overall result and ideally for the quality of my conversation rather than dissecting all of the choices I made to look pretty :).

 

There are men who would go out with a certain type of girls, the high maintenance type, you know? I am pretty, but I am not a girl who lives to dress up and would hate to go out with a man who appreciates this type of girls or expects his dates to be that way. Trophy wife style, you know what I mean?

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Of course I like if he notices the small details in my appearance, absolutely, I love the "you smell great" line. If I feel he is analyzing me and my choices... nope, it's a turn off :D.

 

I actually got once: "you should use more foundation!" (makes me look more like a doll, to his benefit). Can I please have the privilege of deciding when and how much foundation I am to use?

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If a womans vagina looks like a blue waffle in a knife fight. Disqualified.

 

I have absolutely no idea what this means but I can understand why it'd be a turnoff. :laugh:

 

My silliest is probably the sandals with socks thing. This was rampant at my grad school and it is a VERY unattractive look.

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Originally Posted by AlexCross : If a womans vagina looks like a blue waffle in a knife fight. Disqualified.

 

I have absolutely no idea what this means but I can understand why it'd be a turnoff. :laugh:

 

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If his brain is actually noticing this, analyzing it and decide that that particular vagina is unattractive, wel, IMHO, he shouldn't take the time to access it, in the first place. He's not sleeping with a "vagina", but with a woman very conveniently attached to it. Maybe he's doing that girl (excuse me, I mean vagina) a favor by nexting her :laugh:.

 

I totally get stinky vagina, spiky vagina, bitter vagina... :o, also, generally showering and waxing tend to partially solve these matters.

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Looking like a doll would be kind of creepy.

 

to each their own, that's what I think! I gave him the reference of the brand and type of foundation, in case he wanted to give it a try :rolleyes:!

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You are literally the first girl i hear/read complaining about this.

I have gotten nothing but suggestions in both RL and internet media about men having to shave their armpits.

 

PS: You would have liked the knights in the middle ages. ;)

 

Lol. I once saw a guy with no armpit hair and it was the weirdest sight... seriously, he lifted one arm and then BAM, I instantly noticed how strange it looked. I was totally not expecting there to be no hair. Then I started being paranoid that he was more cleanly shaved than I was, even though my armpits weren't even visible. Ugh, I would hate to be more hairy than a guy though. Maybe I'm just weird. :o

 

Trimmed is OK I guess, but I don't mind it bushy. It's not like I'm going to touch it anyway. :laugh:

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Is being prude silly or legitimate? I absolutely cannot stand prude girls. Prude, shy, whatever. Get that nonsense outta here :mad:

 

Shy does NOT equal prude...just saying

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Oh. Good one. I hate girls who curse. Unless it's in the bedroom where it belongs.

 

and yet, you don't like prudes...

 

you're a hard one to please, aren't ya?

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Its very evident by my posts that I enjoy curse words I just cannot help it. I curtail it around certain people though

 

I gotta stop ****ing cussing it makes me seem less classy

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I have a feeling we'd get along just fine.

 

Oh really? Good to know :D

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Thin lips. If a man has thin lips, I can't get over it no matter what other qualities he has :(

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A guy that has submissive sexual tendencies or wants to be penetrated. A lot of people say men have a prostate and there is nothing gay or sub about pegging, but to me its freaking gender bending and I can't respect/look up to a man who wants to lay back and receive just like a Woman!

 

YES. This too.

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The cussing one in women is an annoying one too. I'm no prude but there's no point in swearing like a sailor. To me it indicates a lack of class.

 

Also I detest smoking. I just could never be with someone who smokes. I grew up with smokers and the smell is horrible. Not to mention the whole dying young thing.

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