sillyanswer Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Passive-aggressive behaviour. (but maybe that's not a silly one)
Mary7720 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Women do this? I've received my share of idiotic political emails from distant relatives but I just delete them all. Personally I do have moments of losing faith in the system which probably even makes me look jaded at times but the way I view the world? Absolutely not. Debate/sharing views is one thing but if someone tries to force their views on me I stop them, they have no right. Good for you. Nothing is silly if it's a deal breaker. Obviously it means something final. Mine is politics. My orientations to the world are central to my identity. To my opposite I am a "bleeding heart liberal". To me they are heartless con artists who rather kill that feed someone less fortunate. I try to make that clear. I don't like when someone thinks this is a minor thing and I'll change to their ways of thinking (or failing to think)--like I'm going to suddenly start reversing my beef with religion and start listening to Fox "News" and hate mongers on AM radio and side with them because it's a small and silly thing. Hello. It's non-negotiable. I can forgive a person's upbringing but don't think I can be persuaded to restupify myself.
2sure Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Turns out the way his car smells is a deal breaker. Smelled like a hockey bag. No idea what was in the trunk .
Titania22 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I don't suppose this is silly, but it is a deal breaker, smoking and drug use. 1
TheZebra Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 When guys don't show proper spelling/grammar in texting... it really bugs me. If a guy texts me this: "hey wut u up tonight" Instant turn off. Will not even bother replying. 6
Titania22 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 When guys don't show proper spelling/grammar in texting... it really bugs me. If a guy texts me this: "hey wut u up tonight" Instant turn off. Will not even bother replying. That bothers me when any human being does it, at least I am assuming texts and messages are coming from human beings. 4
miss_jaclynrae Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Illiteracy is the biggest turn off. I consider myself an educated woman and I can't tolerate an uneducated man.
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 too many ruined tshirts because of too much make up? wet kleenex come in very handy, indeed . Men who think the world revolves around them men with superiority complexes men who order food for me without asking for permission
nyyankeegal33 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Intense Red Sox fan, guys who wear oversized t-shirts
ls32ssibm Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 A girl with 1,500 Facebook friends and 100 comments on her photos saying "Damn girl, you sexy!". 3
Keenly Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 When guys don't show proper spelling/grammar in texting... it really bugs me. If a guy texts me this: "hey wut u up tonight" Instant turn off. Will not even bother replying. Thank you for making me feel like my effort actually pays off lol. Sometimes when I text a girl I am afraid my perfectionist grammar will come across as... odd
Imported Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 too many ruined tshirts because of too much make up? wet kleenex come in very handy, indeed . Men who think the world revolves around them men with superiority complexes men who order food for me without asking for permission What if it was because they remember a conversation they had with you about food and that you described a dish you wanted and he got it for you down to the minute details? 1
ltjg45 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Thank you for making me feel like my effort actually pays off lol. Sometimes when I text a girl I am afraid my perfectionist grammar will come across as... odd It's funny though. I hate reading. I failed my senior English class because I refuse to read a book. Despite this, I can type up a paragraph almost perfectly. My English ability is better than most Americans and that is a shame when I had no desire to type as well as this. My strong point is in Math. A lot of people tell me I'm smart. I tell them they are giving me too much credit otherwise I would have found work by now.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 It's funny though. I hate reading. I failed my senior English class because I refuse to read a book. Despite this, I can type up a paragraph almost perfectly. My English ability is better than most Americans and that is a shame when I had no desire to type as well as this. My strong point is in Math. A lot of people tell me I'm smart. I tell them they are giving me too much credit otherwise I would have found work by now. Who reads books for school? What do you think the internet and/or spark notes are for? Heck, I guessed what books were about half the time and still got A's. The titles are dead giveaways...
ltjg45 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Who reads books for school? What do you think the internet and/or spark notes are for? Heck, I guessed what books were about half the time and still got A's. The titles are dead giveaways... It's just those long 2-3 page book reports and then the teacher says your semester grade will be largely decided by the results of said book report. I decided to go to take a nap and take a failing grade instead. Reading a book hurts my mind. Reading a book and trying to understand what I'm reading on a topic that I don't give two craps about? Migraine for days. I value the safety of my brain higher than some mere semester grade.
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 What if it was because they remember a conversation they had with you about food and that you described a dish you wanted and he got it for you down to the minute details? He would actually score a lot of points, if that was the case! I loooove good food ! Even if he didn't get it for me down to the minute, the fact that he'd remember that detail and gave it a shot at surprising me... yeah, I'd be eating the whole plate even if it was cow's brain and he'd be marking points for sure! But if we're at a burger place and he assumes I don't like my fries because I am a gym freak and orders salad straight away... I actually enjoy some junk food, once in a blue moon, it's my reward for working hard and my privilege to decide when I'm going to be bad !
Casablanca Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I won't date a vegetarian. I know not all vegetarian's are pushy, most probably aren't, but I really enjoy cooking for someone, and sure there are things one can make, but I really enjoy grilling a steak, making breakfast, making a roast, etc. 3
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I don't even remember the last time a guy that I was romantically involved with cooked for me... I wonder how that would feel. the guy I am currently seeing told me that he never dated any girl who couldn't cook. He would just disengage. How weird is that... ?
tman666 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 I haven't dated in years, but I stopped seeing a girl once for having chin stubble. Poor girl probably panicked about the little blonde hairs that every girl has on her face and made the mistake of taking a razor to them instead of waxing. So I suppose that's a silly deal breaker. Other silly deal breakers: 1) Not outdoorsy enough: it's weird with me. I love it when my girl gets all dolled up for when we go out, but I absolutely can't stand being around a girl who takes an hour to do her hair/makeup every time she goes out in public. I've dated those types, and it's a pain in the balls. I'm not saying my woman needs to be some sort of uber-survivalist or anything, but if she can't spend a night or two in a tent, go hiking, or tolerate getting a little grimy, she's probably not my type, haha. Taking a girl camping is sort of a litmus test to see if she can pass muster, haha.
nessaaa Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Age, I cant deal with a man whose younger than me, even a year younger i cant do. A bad kisser, Had ine guy suck on my lips so hard they literally turned blue. Big nose,moles.And by silly, I mean those deal breakers that you know a fair amount of people would call silly or insignificant. My usual deal breakers revolve around health stuff, honesty/loyalty, and empathy. My "silly" deal breaker is tanning. I just cant stand it. Not only because I dislike the look, but maily for the disregard of its bad health effects. So many women ignore the fact that a tan is the body defneding itself ad telling you to get out of the sun. And youre way past vitamin d benefits once your skin starts changing colors...but people dont know this. Nor do they know that tanning bed do NOT give the benefits the sun does. It gives all the bad and none of he good...yet people bake in them. Its funny how so many white woman are concerned with tanning because of wanting to look good...yet tanning ages youre skin and makes you look older than your age over time. Super counter productive. And people seem to ignore the new cmmercials warning of skin cancer. /rant. Anyways, I know plenty of people see my deal breakeer as silly...but go on and share some of yours.
Keenly Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Age, I cant deal with a man whose younger than me, even a year younger i cant do. A bad kisser, Had ine guy suck on my lips so hard they literally turned blue. Big nose,moles. Oh damn you remind me, bad kisser is a deal breaker, and by bad I mean BAD. I felt like I was making out with a facehugger.
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 ok, can someone pls enlighten me, what's YOLO, HMU and OLD? Men who get into fights for the sake of it and feel the need to always prove that they are right
ltjg45 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 ok, can someone pls enlighten me, what's YOLO, HMU and OLD? Men who get into fights for the sake of it and feel the need to always prove that they are right I know YOLO = You Only Live Once. No clue on the other 2.
Phoebe Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 1. Bad spelling / grammer 2. Men who wear jewelry (a nice watch is fine, but anything else...urgh)
startinganew777 Posted February 5, 2013 Posted February 5, 2013 Bad teeth, close minded men, and materialistic guys are very unattractive to me. I hate when all someone cares about is money. And yeah, if they listen to Nickleback or think Applebees is just the bees knees, no, you will not get along with me. LOL 1
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