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What is your "silliest" deal breaker?


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Having an unappealing vagina.......

 

 

Describe what you mean!!!

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I know this will be controversial but if someone doesn't drink I find it difficult.

 

I don't mean excessive drinking but I enjoy a night out or a glass of wine over dinner, loosen up a little at the weekend.

When someone doesn't drink you have to spend a lot of time finding alternative activities where alcohol is never present.

 

I don't have a problem really with someone who doesn't drink it just seems to be a clash in personalities.

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Cowboys, Ravens, Patriots, 49'er fan.....dealbreaker.

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I know this will be controversial but if someone doesn't drink I find it difficult.

 

I don't mean excessive drinking but I enjoy a night out or a glass of wine over dinner, loosen up a little at the weekend.

When someone doesn't drink you have to spend a lot of time finding alternative activities where alcohol is never present.

 

I don't have a problem really with someone who doesn't drink it just seems to be a clash in personalities.

 

Uh uh uh this!

My ex didn't drink and he was the only person I've ever dated that didn't. And it wasn't fun. He never wanted to go to bars or to the pub, even if just to leave the house. He would never join me when I went to have drinks with friends and would judge me heavily on MY drinking.

 

So yeah... Guys who don't drink won't do

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Stinky dick. No way, no how.

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More of annoyances...

 

When a guy leaps to conclusions about you that are often wrong...before even going out with you. Put in the time (live, not phone calls/texting) and then decide.

 

Guys who are so nervous they can't take action. Relax, I'm human too.

 

Guys you just meet who get too touchy or suggestive. It's welcome later but the first few minutes, no.

 

Guys who worry too much about looks/money/things - not only in women but themselves

 

Dealbreakers:

Lying, cheating...emotionally and physically, being disrespectful in any way

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Bad teeth and or dirty fingernails...

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deal breaker...

 

"i know you have applied and have a visa, but you dont have a house, hes waiting outside in the car, bye".

 

This was the last time i ever dated (over 10 years ago), will never be told "no" by a woman ever again.

 

I have many man toys now (they never say no).

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Nothing is silly if it's a deal breaker. Obviously it means something final. Mine is politics. My orientations to the world are central to my identity. To my opposite I am a "bleeding heart liberal". To me they are heartless con artists who rather kill that feed someone less fortunate. I try to make that clear. I don't like when someone thinks this is a minor thing and I'll change to their ways of thinking (or failing to think)--like I'm going to suddenly start reversing my beef with religion and start listening to Fox "News" and hate mongers on AM radio and side with them because it's a small and silly thing. Hello. It's non-negotiable. I can forgive a person's upbringing but don't think I can be persuaded to restupify myself.

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If you were referring to my typos in my OP, I was typing on my cell phone.

 

Haha, I wasn't. And I completely understand!

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snoring is a dealbreaker for me:bunny:

 

Oh snoring would be one of mine also. Had experienced that seeing someone in the past. When it was over I was like, never gonna have to deal with that again!

 

Skinny Jeans on guys is another good call there. To me it just looks wrong on them!

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People talking up their crap readings. Better read nothing than reading crap tbh.

 

Also, people talking up their beliefs about stuff like astrology, homeopathy, "free energy", ufos, life energy, psychic crap etc. cbf replying to that.

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Won't date a girl who's # is in the double digits.

 

pals forever, man, no worries :cool: !

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:o:o I love sunbaking...

 

To try to be sensible, I get checked twice a year at a skin cancer clinic.

 

And I DO NOT go dark: I simply get a glow, a BIT of colour.. I am naturally VERY white, so I am not even close to the tanned barbie type.

 

 

 

.....What is wrong with a bit of colour? Do you just mean the too dark tan?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SILLY DEALBREAKERS: guys who are TOO romantic, and who call me gorgeous and beautiful too readily; then I know they do it to MOST girls they half like...

 

LOL I do like to be called beautiful, but only in mroe reware moments, so I know it is genuine and not just something they readily say to most girls they date....

 

And if a guy wrote me a poem... I would discard him:)

 

 

OH - and too deep thinkers who think deeply about their feelings for me.. I am a deep thinker, and I prefer guys that think more simply in terms of their feelings.. You know, they know if they are into a girl and are in love with them, but do not .... talk about deep feelings.

 

LOL. Manly men, not... pretty boy look alikes who talk about their feelings.

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..and if they are too hot:confused::laugh:

 

I mean... I can see a super hot guy taking a liking for me, even though I am not as good looking as them; it happens, I have a personality that sometimes attracts men way above my league.

 

I just prefer average/ 7out of ten TOPS in men, as I feel more secure and like I am dating someone who I look as good as...

 

 

 

so yeah. If a nice man with a 6 pack comes my way, I will leave him for other model look alikes!

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If a womans vagina looks like a blue waffle in a knife fight. Disqualified.

 

 

wtf?

 

 

Explain? I am serious.

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massive use of hair gel - if I like a guy, I would phantasize about running my fingers through his hair :blush:

 

guys who are too much into their looks

 

guys who are too sure of themselves (bastards, those ones can be darn attractive, though)

 

guys who would say how much they hate the city they live in - major red flag. if you want to leave city, why the hell are you seeing me for? just leave and do everyone - including yourself - a big favor

 

men who are very passionate about their hobbies - my dad is crazy about soccer, he would even watch league C qualification games, if he could. I like to watch a game, have a beer and hang out in the sports bar, but I hate disloyal competition ;) - wtf can you do to beat up a good goalkeeper?

 

men who hate pets - you don't have to be crazy about them, at least tolerate them

 

men with no political conviction - at least if he's a lefty, I can get into a good fight

 

men with no desire to travel

 

men who have a horrible diet - I enjoy good food, I would like to have a discovery partner

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Doing drugs (even pot) is a deal breaker for me. That said, I have fallen for guys who smoke pot, but I don't think I would ever initiate anything with anyone who's into drugs.

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These are indeed silly:

 

Republicans

Dudes who order their steak well-done

If they listen to crap music like Nickelback

Smoking (ok this one is huge to me)

Too much time playing video games

He doesn't like dogs

Can't drive a stick shift

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These are indeed silly:

 

Republicans

Dudes who order their steak well-done

If they listen to crap music like Nickelback

Smoking (ok this one is huge to me)

Too much time playing video games

He doesn't like dogs

Can't drive a stick shift

 

 

Haha, what's wrong with video games :(

 

And what if he can't drive a stick due to s traumatic car accident with his father

t at age eleven.

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Submissive men..ugh.

I love dominant men. Men who take charge.

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Girls who play the stupid game of saying what you want to hear rather than how the really feel.

 

Whoring up attention on the side texting while exclusive.

 

Girls who don't defend the honor of their own relationship.

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Haha, what's wrong with video games :(

 

And what if he can't drive a stick due to s traumatic car accident with his father

t at age eleven.

 

Ha - I told you they were silly.

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Mine is quite silly - girls who are too quiet. That's f-cking annoying after a while - say something! :laugh:

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