JuneJulySeptember Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 A while ago when I realized roughly what my success rate with women (or lack thereof) was going to be, I created some rough target numbers that I wanted to achieve before I eventually got married and called it a day. This involved: 1) A number of women I dated or was in a relationship with 2) A number of women I kissed 3) A number of women I had sex with (non-paid) I just kind of wanted to feel like I had lived some life experiences and achieved some without marrying the first one. I was really more concerned with #1 and #2 than #3. I believe most guys are more concerned with #3. Anyway, I was just wondering if any other guys have done this. P.S. Anybody who has read my posts realizes that my target #s are relatively low. If you're going to post all kinds of crazy high target #s that are going to make me feel like I'm at the kiddie table, please don't.
MrCastle Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Yes I do have a target, but it's more of a list of things I want to accomplish before I settle down. It's not really a certain amount of women but rather experiences, like I want all hair colors, all ethnicities, skinny girls, curvy girls, short girls, tall girls, hipsters, rockers, chicks my age, older women, etc etc. All different positions, etc. Maybe a threesome thrown in for good measure, and then I feel like I'd gotten it out of my system. I can't settle down until my system is empty.
Keenly Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Yes I do have a target, but it's more of a list of things I want to accomplish before I settle down. It's not really a certain amount of women but rather experiences, like I want all hair colors, all ethnicities, skinny girls, curvy girls, short girls, tall girls, hipsters, rockers, chicks my age, older women, etc etc. All different positions, etc. Maybe a threesome thrown in for good measure, and then I feel like I'd gotten it out of my system. I can't settle down until my system is empty. Quite the ambitious one aren't we? I'll just take as many as it takes until I find the right one. Have some fun along the way 1
MrCastle Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Quite the ambitious one aren't we? I'll just take as many as it takes until I find the right one. Have some fun along the way Women are my life. 2
KathyM Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 The problem with having this "to do list" before settling down is that you never know when you'll meet The One that will make you want to settle down. Would you really give up someone amazing who is a great match for you just because you haven't completed your to do list? I would hope not. True love doesn't come at a designated time. When it does, you have to grab it, or you may lose someone really special and regret giving that person up to chase your wild oats. I venture to say there would be more regrets for giving up a great match than for giving up a goal of banging a certain number of women. 1
lino Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I never considered things like target numbers or any similar such thing. I would've married the first girlfriend I ever had if she wanted to. I've never concerned myself with banging as many women as possible or getting certain things/fantasies 'out of my system.' I'm now with my 10th girl which is also the longest relationship I've ever had (by a long way too) and I hope it'll be the last... but you never know with women! 1
MrCastle Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I've never concerned myself with banging as many women as possible or getting certain things/fantasies 'out of my system.'
sweetkiwi Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Women are my life. And they love you for loving them. Quite the Rake my dear. 1
ThaWholigan Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 When I was younger, I always thought I would have 2 girlfriends and then 1 wife. The first girl would be the puppy love sweetheart who I first fall for, the second would be the crazy seductress lady who I would have a turbulent passionate relationship, and then my wife would be a woman who encompassed both women but more. That used to be something of a target because my imagination was so vivid that I wanted to have that. Since I've gotten older, my fantasies have changed. I don't really want to rack up the numbers, never had the desire to in the first place. So I can't really say I have "target numbers". 2
MrCastle Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 And they love you for loving them. Quite the Rake my dear. Hahaha I see you know your art of seduction 1
sweetkiwi Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Yes I certainly do. I have my own part as well. Several actually. Its kind of all common knowledge things for me. But perfecting your specific role is interesting. I cant pick just one!!!!!! Anyway on topic. Not a dude. Don't care about numbers (besides math). But I am actively pursuing fantasies that I couldn't realize in a relationship. Or at least not in the relationships I've had.
Estate Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 A while ago when I realized roughly what my success rate with women (or lack thereof) was going to be, I created some rough target numbers that I wanted to achieve before I eventually got married and called it a day. This involved: 1) A number of women I dated or was in a relationship with 2) A number of women I kissed 3) A number of women I had sex with (non-paid) I just kind of wanted to feel like I had lived some life experiences and achieved some without marrying the first one. I was really more concerned with #1 and #2 than #3. I believe most guys are more concerned with #3. Anyway, I was just wondering if any other guys have done this. P.S. Anybody who has read my posts realizes that my target #s are relatively low. If you're going to post all kinds of crazy high target #s that are going to make me feel like I'm at the kiddie table, please don't. While I agree you should experience life to truely know when you meet the right one, I don't know if a target is right. I mean, if the first girl you ever met turned out to be the one. I don't have a problem with that. I know people who ahve dated since school and never dated anyone else but 10+ years on you can see they are still mad about each other and there is no feeling of "what if" about meeting anyone else. But jumping into the first relationship and clinging too it incase you can't find something else isn't good for either party. I think you just need to keep meeting people, then you begin to get an idea of what does and doesn't work for you in a relationship and when the right one comes along, you'll know. Lets say you want to have 10 relationships but you meet an unbelievable girl at number 7... would you really give that up because you didn't reach your target? Seems silly.
ltjg45 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 No. No target numbers for me. Considering that I have yet to get a girlfriend at my age, target numbers is the least of my concerns.
MrCastle Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Crazy life Can't argue that. I just--partying/drugs were never my thing. Money doesn't motivate me--at least not to the extent it does for others. Women have always been my thing. I used to get in trouble in pre-k for kissing the girls. The girls seemed to like it but the parents didn't I never went through a cootie phase or any of that. I've always loved women.
apple OR orange Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 Never had target numbers.... every time i get near someone i am rejected. Being an intelligent person, i stopped doing stuff that resulted in rejection, which interestingly means nothing that involves another human, so its all man toys for me
somedude81 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 When I was younger I had certain numbers that I wanted to achieve. But now that I'm older and I can tell that I'll be lucky if I can even mange to get one women. I just hope she's not some crazy bitch because I'll probably only to pull off getting a girl once. If it ever happens.
TheFinalWord Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 (edited) A while ago when I realized roughly what my success rate with women (or lack thereof) was going to be, I created some rough target numbers that I wanted to achieve before I eventually got married and called it a day. This involved: 1) A number of women I dated or was in a relationship with 2) A number of women I kissed 3) A number of women I had sex with (non-paid) I just kind of wanted to feel like I had lived some life experiences and achieved some without marrying the first one. I was really more concerned with #1 and #2 than #3. I believe most guys are more concerned with #3. Anyway, I was just wondering if any other guys have done this. P.S. Anybody who has read my posts realizes that my target #s are relatively low. If you're going to post all kinds of crazy high target #s that are going to make me feel like I'm at the kiddie table, please don't. No, women are not items to conquer. Have any men here seen a successful marriage? My mom and dad have been married 40 years and the mentality of my father is so much different than the men I see displayed on this site. He never played these kinds of games. He knew what he wanted, found a woman that wanted those same things and they achieved it. My mom and dad have never cheated and my mom has told me she has never sexually desire another man since marriage. Not even a temptation. Must be in the genes. I am the same way. I have no desire to have sex with random women and it never crosses my mind to have all hair colors, etc. I have higher than average test levels (I'm into bodybuilding and had the doc check, over 1000 ng/dl) and have never had a hard time containing myself either. Granted, I am not married yet, but that same mentality is with me. I just want one woman that fits the vision for my life. A teammate that I can grow with. If a woman does not fit that (can usually tell in 5 dates or less) I never think "Let's see if I can ONS her to have a redhead on my notch and then be on my way". It never crosses my mind. I just tell her and carry on with my life. Edited February 4, 2013 by TheFinalWord 2
Talak7 Posted February 4, 2013 Posted February 4, 2013 No, women are not items to conquer. They aren't? Lies! I thought the most satisfying part was knowing that your strategic analysis, planning, and game has successfully bent the will of another human being to the point of submitting to my sexual will? Or is that just me...?
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