Awarth Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Hey everyone..just wanna get something off the chest.. so yesterday at around 3am, my ex gf suddenly called..she was sobbing and thank me for willingly to pick up her call...then she just ask me if i could ever forgive her for being so blind and wrong, and said that she was really really sorry for hurting me so much...she said she was looking at our old couple ring and she really regret what she had done to me..then she start to ask me, if she comes back to me, will i accept her again (i said i don't know)... its been almost 1 and half year since she dumped me for another guy..honestly speaking, i still have rather strong feelings for her (we've been together for 5+ yrs)..and its been so long, i dont really hold much anger for her anymore.. so, how should i proceed here? i do not wanna get too excited and get disappointed again..but this recent call seems to be something.. thanks everyone..
Arnissa_N Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Hey everyone..just wanna get something off the chest.. so yesterday at around 3am, my ex gf suddenly called..she was sobbing and thank me for willingly to pick up her call...then she just ask me if i could ever forgive her for being so blind and wrong, and said that she was really really sorry for hurting me so much...she said she was looking at our old couple ring and she really regret what she had done to me..then she start to ask me, if she comes back to me, will i accept her again (i said i don't know)... its been almost 1 and half year since she dumped me for another guy..honestly speaking, i still have rather strong feelings for her (we've been together for 5+ yrs)..and its been so long, i dont really hold much anger for her anymore.. so, how should i proceed here? i do not wanna get too excited and get disappointed again..but this recent call seems to be something.. thanks everyone.. One and a half years is a long time... She was with another guy. But what about you? Were you single all along? and were you still not over her? If not, then the confusion should not even arise. If so, you could give her a trial run and see whether she's really sincere, or just on the rebound... And yes unless you are 100% sure, maybe being a little cautious will help...
williamshakespeare Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 She called at 3AM? She may have been drinking and talking emotional sh*t. Could you tell? Eg was she slurring her words? I would tread very carefully if I was you. For starters, wait for her to call again at a normal time.
Author Awarth Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Nar, she is definitely not drinking..but yeah, i will be cautious..
SharkTooth Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 You both have grown since the breakup and you won't have the exact same feelings you held 1 1/2 years ago. Definitely go for it but I would treat this like you are dating a new woman and getting to know her all over. Try not to talk about the old times. Have fun and don't go on a fact finding date. It will fail dramatically. It's all about having fun! Good Luck!
Author Awarth Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 I did NC..for the first few weeks both of us nvr talk to each other...then after about a month after she dumped me, she will call or msg me once every month..i never initiated contact first...and even when she call me, i usually keep the conversation short..its only during last October or so when we start to talk a bit more on the phone..even meet up a couple of times during December...
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