blue_jay_bird Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 So the line is "im going through some personal stuff right now and i don't want a relationship" If someone is interested in you they will chase you. Just another excuse. He's just not that into me. Why are my girlfriends making excuses. Maybe he is having a tough time or something. .. Why can't someone just say they don't want a relationship with you... why can't you just tell me it's me. People playing games and using others. Any great stories?
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) The "personal stuff" is having sex with another man. lol, well i hope he's not... (he's having sex with another woman) But i feel so stringed along... should i wait. Lol that's a no. But why do they keep doors open. Edited February 3, 2013 by blue_jay_bird
aj22one Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 People make up junk 'cause they don't want to deal with actually rejecting people. Kinda like calling out of work with the "flu" haha. 1
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) People make up junk 'cause they don't want to deal with actually rejecting people. Kinda like calling out of work with the "flu" haha. But at the age of 28....realllly....he just seems experienced. You would think after such a long time you would grow some balls and be able to say " i'm sorry im just not that interested" Cause right now im taking it as ...he is interested. But needs time, or something. Note my lack of experience. Edited February 3, 2013 by blue_jay_bird
PhillyDude Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Using "personal stuff" is a easy way out and avoids confrontation
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Using "personal stuff" is a easy way out and avoids confrontation He now say's he would like a casual relationship. Why is it, their are so many guys that say this. And is it just a dating block to the next step, or is it just sex for a guy.
Titania22 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 And sometimes people are going through personal stuff, and you luckily dodge a bullet because they say that, instead of stringing you along.
Titania22 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 He now say's he would like a casual relationship. Why is it, their are so many guys that say this. And is it just a dating block to the next step, or is it just sex for a guy. I think that's just sex for a guy.
RachR Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 He now say's he would like a casual relationship. Why is it, their are so many guys that say this. And is it just a dating block to the next step, or is it just sex for a guy. Like Titania22 said, just sex. Pretty much sleeping with you without expectations of it getting serious.
outsidethebox Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Good topic. Can't people date multiple people for awhile?
Shaun-Dro Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 People make up junk 'cause they don't want to deal with actually rejecting people. Kinda like calling out of work with the "flu" haha. Exactly! People are always going to look for the easy way out.
CptObvious Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Terrible excuse. It's much better to pretend you're in debt. Nothing says undateable like being poor.
PogoStick Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) I tried going on a few dates and realized, I really am going through some personal stuff and not ready to get involved with someone. Sorry. And her saying "it's ok" and kind of waiting around just makes me feel even more guilty. Edited February 3, 2013 by PogoStick
Author blue_jay_bird Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 This going through personal stuff sounds like BS. He asked for a casual relationship. To me thats the understanding that it will not lead to anything eles. Because he's not interested in me. Or not? That's is this my unlined naivety? I asked how many sexual partners he's had in the last year. He has no idea. In the last six months he guesses six. lol, which im guessing is a lie. It seems like he dates a girl for a month, loses interest and then dumps them. So if his personal stuff he's dealing with is that he's a player, then yeah, poor him he has it so hard. Dating is funnn.
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