Sadmisselle Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I always hold on to hope every time he leaves me. Hope that he'll realize what he's missing in life is me... and every single time he comes back. It's different this time. He is already pretty cozy with the girl he cheated on me with. It's been a week since we split... and I finally did what I had to do. I removed every single person from my friend's list on Facebook that would post anything he might possibly like, comment, or be tagged in. I deleted all of his pictures from every possible source. I deleted his phone number, his AIM, EVERYTHING. Because I cannot hold out hope that this will be fixed. There is no going back. No matter how awful I feel I know that this happened for a reason. And since the break up I am starting to again realize my self worth. He is not the only person out there. And i realized how much time I wasted trying and trying to make something right that was obviously so wrong. I know im not over my grief. But I am slowly starting to see him for the person he truely is... and I deserve better. 7
geegirl Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Great post! Cheaters suck. You do deserve better and I'm glad to hear you say that you are beginning to realize your self-worth. Half the battle won when you begin to shift focus on yourself. 1
SerCay Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Keep it up girl, I find it incredibly strong of you and you did the right thing. if you don't give in now you have this vibe going you will be over him in a split second, because cold turkey that comes from within is the only cold turkey that will be successful! 1
Author Sadmisselle Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Thanks guys! I know I will have weak moments again but knowing that my Facebook is free from any more heartbreak makes me so happy! And I have the most amazing support system. It's like I am in AA or something but.honestly it feels pretty good right now. I just really hope I can keep it going! Wish me luck!
Leigh 87 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Cheaters like him are not capable of truly loving anyone, in a deep sense, anyway! Even if he is capable of loving, he is not looking for propper love: he comes back to you after he is done with the other girls.... Why would he go back to you? Clearly he is not deeply in love with you the way a loyal, adoring man is. YOu deserve better than a man who can never love you in the way that you deserve. And frankly, he would be better off trying to find a girl he WILL NOT be able to cheat on, or getting bloody therapy so he can learn to love more deeply so as NOT to cheat on peopple..... He will be back when things do not work out with his current girl, because he does not have a clue what real love is, and will just want to use you for comfort and familiarity. Stay strong this time please! WELL DONE for blocking all his mates and cutting all ties with him! If you ever have a week moment COME ON HERE and let us talk some sense into you:) Good luck! 2
Addison312 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 YOu deserve better than a man who can never love you in the way that you deserve. Thanks, Leigh. After a bad day, this made me feel 3% better.
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