Two girls keep blocking me / unblocking on Facebook. What is going on here?

[LeaveInSilence]

OK..first post here...this might be long.

 

I've had a crush on this girl for two years but she really doesn't know that I exist, until now. I'd see her around at bars and parties and we apparently had some mutual friends...but we never actually met. I could never find the right time to talk to her and make a move.

 

Later, I figured out her last name from one of my semi-friends and found her on Facebook, but I never contacted her. At one point, I noticed a guy showing up in her photos, somebody I assumed was her boyfriend...so I basically moved on and stopped thinking about her.

 

Awhile back, I went to a party and met this girl who was apparently her best friend and we knew a lot of the same people. She and I talked for a while and she seemed really nice and cool. During our conversation she mentioned my crush, and in a act of honesty/courage, I admitted that I had always had a thing for her but never got to meet her.

 

Jump to two weeks later and I randomly see this girl again at the grocery store and we make friendly small talk. Out of curiosity, I asked what her last name was and she told me (and I told her mine).

 

That night I go home and look her up on Facebook but don't add her as a friend. The next morning, I log back into Facebook and she has apparently blocked me. Not only that, my crush (that I have never met!) has also blocked me!

 

It is obvious that the girls both have found me on Facebook and for the past couple of weeks they have talked about me with one another. Now, for some reason, there will be a couple days where they don't block me and then I'll be back to being blocked again. It's like they want to look into my life and check me out. Something is up here.

 

Before you ask, I do not come off as creepy in anyway and carry myself well. I would consider myself rather attractive (based on what I've been told since I was very young) and I'm great shape and take care of myself.

 

Can any women chime in with their opinions on this? Why are these girls playing virtual head games with me? Why does my supposed crush have any reason to hide from me since she has a boyfriend and I've never even met her?

 

Thanks.

[skylark100]

OK..first post here...this might be long.

 

I've had a crush on this girl for two years but she really doesn't know that I exist, until now. I'd see her around at bars and parties and we apparently had some mutual friends...but we never actually met. I could never find the right time to talk to her and make a move.

 

Later, I figured out her last name from one of my semi-friends and found her on Facebook, but I never contacted her. At one point, I noticed a guy showing up in her photos, somebody I assumed was her boyfriend...so I basically moved on and stopped thinking about her.

 

Awhile back, I went to a party and met this girl who was apparently her best friend and we knew a lot of the same people. She and I talked for a while and she seemed really nice and cool. During our conversation she mentioned my crush, and in a act of honesty/courage, I admitted that I had always had a thing for her but never got to meet her.

 

Jump to two weeks later and I randomly see this girl again at the grocery store and we make friendly small talk. Out of curiosity, I asked what her last name was and she told me (and I told her mine).

 

That night I go home and look her up on Facebook but don't add her as a friend. The next morning, I log back into Facebook and she has apparently blocked me. Not only that, my crush (that I have never met!) has also blocked me!

 

It is obvious that the girls both have found me on Facebook and for the past couple of weeks they have talked about me with one another. Now, for some reason, there will be a couple days where they don't block me and then I'll be back to being blocked again. It's like they want to look into my life and check me out. Something is up here.

 

Before you ask, I do not come off as creepy in anyway and carry myself well. I would consider myself rather attractive (based on what I've been told since I was very young) and I'm great shape and take care of myself.

 

Can any women chime in with their opinions on this? Why are these girls playing virtual head games with me? Why does my supposed crush have any reason to hide from me since she has a boyfriend and I've never even met her?

 

Thanks.

 

I would say, forget about them, stop trying to figure out Facebook and go find some non cyber girls to chase. You're going in circles trying to figure out completely irrational behaviour. How old are these girls!? They sound like they in their teens....

Edited February 2, 2013 by skylark100

[Fondue]

I never understand people whom take facebook so seriously.

 

Anyway, block them.

 

They're clearly children. Do you want to date a child?

[LeaveInSilence]

I would say, forget about them, stop trying to figure out Facebook and go find some non cyber girls to chase. You're going in circles trying to figure out completely irrational behaviour. How old are these girls!? They sound like they in their teens....

 

We are in our 30's! The thing is, I wasn't officially blocked by my crush until I got the last name of her best friend...that's when the weirdness offiically started.

 

Yeah, I'm moving on.

[KraftDinner]

OP, are you a DM fan?

 

Also, I also vote for blocking them. How old are they?

[CptObvious]

They're clearly children. Do you want to date a child?

 

Yeah op, do you?

 

[Mrlonelyone]

This is kind of bizarre. When it comes to Facebook the psychology of why people block unblock activate and deactivate is kind of random at times.

 

Here is my advice. See how these people treat you in real life. Then judge based on real life not Facebook. Ask them for their number, their IM their Skype or whatever. If they'll share that with you and communicate with you then disregard Facebook blockage.

 

If they continue to play games and give you double talk move on and go NC.

 

I had a similar situation not long ago, and that's how I'm handling it.

[superb]

How do you know theyre blocking/unblocking so frequently? Are you fb stalking them?

[LeaveInSilence]

OP, are you a DM fan?

 

Also, I also vote for blocking them. How old are they?

 

Huge fan. Love the early stuff more than newer stuff too. How about you?

 

We are all 32, I think.

[Mrlonelyone]

One more thing facebook will at times block people as part of a bug of some kind.

 

Why has Facebook blocked my friend without my permission?

 

My best friend posted a photo and tagged me in it. I looked at the photo, and that was the last I’ve seen of her name!! Her name that was once in my profile is now blacked out and there is no longer a link to her profile. In our messages her photo is now a blank photo, and I cant find her in search! She was so mad I deleted and blocked her, but shes not in my blocked list!!! I cannot find the link to contact Facebook and I’m pretty frustrated by this because shes pretty much the only reason I even use Facebook! Does anyone have any solution?

 

FB will block out people who send too many unaccepted friend request.

 

 

That's why, bottom line is always believe real life interactions over online ones. Manti Teo apparently believed online interactions over real life ones and look what it got him.

[LeaveInSilence]

How do you know theyre blocking/unblocking so frequently? Are you fb stalking them?

 

Well, sometimes they show up in my search bar. I have a few other friends that have the same name so when I type them up, those girls also show up. Once in a while I'll click one of their profiles and it leads me to some type of "missing profile" page. Other times, it will load up.

 

Like I said, the crush has never met me. The best friend is super nice and talkative with me. I believe both of them are taken, so I just don't get the behavior and why they need to hide.