Jake0711 Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Hello! im Jake, im 18 years old and am a senior in high school. about a month ago my girlfriend dumped me out of the blue after 1 year of dating, she has already found a new guy (School jock) and i am SEVERELY depressed about the situation. i am still going to work and trying to cope the BEST i can but i just cant seem to get her out of my head. She was not the best girlfriend ill admit, but she was the most beautiful thing ive ever seen in my life. She is a cheerleader and not to mention great in bed. (Sorry if thats too personal). Winter Formal (School dance, kind of like prom) is in a week and i have a date, but she is going with her new guy and i cant seem to get the fact out of my head that shes gone and moved on so quick... I have recently been prescribed Lexapro for my GAD and anxiety and it is helping somewhat... ANY SUGGESTIONS? im sure you all have your opinion...What should i think to stay positive?
Author Jake0711 Posted February 2, 2013 Author Posted February 2, 2013 Also, she broke up with me because she said she is not "in love" with me anymore but she still loves me.
Author Jake0711 Posted February 2, 2013 Author Posted February 2, 2013 when we were dating i would stay at her house ALL the time, and talk to her all day everyday. Now sitting at home lonely i feel so empty and lost.
AlexfromBoston Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Hello! im Jake, im 18 years old and am a senior in high school. about a month ago my girlfriend dumped me out of the blue after 1 year of dating, she has already found a new guy (School jock) and i am SEVERELY depressed about the situation. i am still going to work and trying to cope the BEST i can but i just cant seem to get her out of my head. She was not the best girlfriend ill admit, but she was the most beautiful thing ive ever seen in my life. She is a cheerleader and not to mention great in bed. (Sorry if thats too personal). Winter Formal (School dance, kind of like prom) is in a week and i have a date, but she is going with her new guy and i cant seem to get the fact out of my head that shes gone and moved on so quick... I have recently been prescribed Lexapro for my GAD and anxiety and it is helping somewhat... ANY SUGGESTIONS? im sure you all have your opinion...What should i think to stay positive? Jake, there is absolutely nothing you can do....your relationship is over, done, finnito. However, that said, you still have your youth on your side. Chances are, this relationship was going to end at some point anyways...most high school flings don't last far beyond senior year. She may seem like the world to you now, but wait until you go to college. You're are going to be surrounding by young, beautiful women. You are going to want to party and live it up...trust me.
Darren Steez Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Jake Unfortunately life is tough my man. You will learn that sometimes there are things that are out of your control, that have nothing to do with you. It sounds like this girl made you feel good about yourself but beauty is only skin deep. I know it's a cliche but it's true. We all have first loves, and they are hard to get over, why? Because it's that first and very powerful connection, very intense feelings, this girl was your whole world and now it's over. You're 18, another cliche about to come, you've got the rest of your life ahead of you, even though it doesn't seem so now. And guess what? You'll meet a girl whom you'll have lots in common with, whom you can laugh with, and share stuff with. In short you will be happy again. Getting dumped sucks, it hurts, it blows. But go outside, go outside and observe the world. Life still moves on, time goes forward. Go outside and take a deep breathe, that is for you. That is for you to live your life, to breathe and go and be happy, your friends are still your friends, your family is still your family. It gets easier pal. Hang in there!
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