Babyribs Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 how do i know i am not being used? how do i know if she likes me? what would she do to let me know? how do i go about this? read my previous post to understand my confusion. and please someone give me some advise
lnichols Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 I think you are being used, just reading your other posts. You have to be the one to decide, though. Generally, if it does not feel 100% honest, then it isn't worth it. Find someone who is not attached. be honest with yourself about how you really feel about this girl, apart from your immeidate physical attraction. Ask yourself if you can see a future for the two of you without the other man involved, and then ask yourself if you like the idea of being a second choice to someone else. Then you will know your answer. I think you already know, you just need a nudge in that direction. Talk to your friends about it and see what they think. Good luck. This happens all the time.
Author Babyribs Posted August 27, 2004 Author Posted August 27, 2004 the day went by yesterday and i didnt get a call from her, i called and i got no answer so i didnt call again, my friend saids shes confused as i am but shes interested, my friend also said that she's just waiting for the right time... is it true? i dont know i am lost now since we had such a great time 2 nights ago and she didnt call at all the day after, i dont know what to think. how do i know if she's interested? how do i know if its worth the wait... how do i test the water? and help please thank you
lnichols Posted August 28, 2004 Posted August 28, 2004 Wait it out for the weekend and see if she calls you. After all, she knows that you aren't involved with anyone else right now, so she should feel free to call if she is interested. In the meanwhile, go out tonight with friends and try to have a good time. You sound like a nice person, and you may meet someone else who will take a genuine interest in you. She sounds like she is weighing her options, trying to decide which one of you she can get the most from a relationship with. (Bad grammar, I know.) Maybe if she knows that you are out having a good time, it will rattle her cage a little. She might like the mental picture of you sitting at home by the telephone. Sounds cruel, but you know that some girls get a charge out of that kind of thing. Let me know how it goes.
Author Babyribs Posted August 28, 2004 Author Posted August 28, 2004 ok so yesterday i didnt call at all and around 6pm she walked into my house, she got this sweatshirt in her hand "a sweatshirt i let her borrowed" well she came in and my friend was here my friend immediately left and she sat in my bed as i sat in the other side we talked for a little while and then my other friend showed up, she looked shocked when my friend came over like if she wanted to say something and she got interupted, i dont know. we had made plans to hang out for a little while today but she said after diner with her mom and grandmom, well then she left, today she called me, she said what are we doing tonight are we having a party, i said we talked about that yesterday and she said oh i didnt remember, so we made plans again for tonight, as we did yesterday...i dont know what to think she ussually doesnt call i am the one calling and she had never showed up in my house like that before, my friend who was here when she first got here said that he left because he felt sexual tention in the room when she walked in, i dont know, is she looking for more with me or is she playing. today we were just supost to have a couple of drinks and then go out somewhere else and now she said are we having a party? can someone tell me what you think is going on? Thank you all for putting up with me
Author Babyribs Posted August 31, 2004 Author Posted August 31, 2004 so much has happened but i cant say right now, someone please read up and give me some more input
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