StanMusial Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 How do you know if you have points on your account? Go to your profile and look at the Infractions section. Link to post Share on other sites
Titania22 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Go to your profile and look at the Infractions section. Thankyou, except I can't find an infractions section. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Thankyou, except I can't find an infractions section. maybe because we haven't been naughty... just yet ! Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Thankyou, except I can't find an infractions section. LOL. Dang! And you've been here since 2010. I think I come across as harsh but I tend to stay on point at least. I really don't know why I got busted. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 must be the friendly monkey you are using in your profile pic! Put on a pic of a nice fairy and you'll be able to get away with murder ! Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 must be the friendly monkey you are using in your profile pic! Put on a pic of a nice fairy and you'll be able to get away with murder ! No way, that guy is cuddly and kind like a lovable teddy bear. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 loveable teddy bear loving all those penalty points... hating to see them all alone... asking them to join forces and have a drink together... your teddy bear is party animal, penalty- points-loving socializer, me fears ! Told you, man, stick with the fairies, safer! a lot more boring, but safer! Link to post Share on other sites
Titania22 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Sorry guys, but maybe I am just super nice. And I don't use bad language ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Well I'm laying down and I just got a ph call from here and here's how it went. Her .Hey how you Me-I'm good just bit sleepy Her-tell me about it I'm beat myself Her-stupid snow I had to not only stay in this weekend but my family from out of town came Me-sounds like fun I had a Super Bowl gathering with friends Her.cool and again so so sorry about Saturday Me -its no biggie Im the one who came off as a jerk Her-hehe Her -my friends want to take me to the city this week for some art show maybe you could meet us ? Me-Hmm well how's Friday sound I kinda just wanted to be us two maybe we can try the meet up half way Her-def that works Should I have just taken her invite to the art fest or I did good sticking to my guns and making my own plans ? Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 it's done, mate, don't think about it! You played it well, good for you! I liked the "Im the one who came of as a jerk", very honest, great stuff for you to be open like that! Looks like someone has a date this Friday, bravo !!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 it's done, mate, don't think about it! You played it well, good for you! I liked the "Im the one who came of as a jerk", very honest, great stuff for you to be open like that! Looks like someone has a date this Friday, bravo !!!Thanks only reason I was gonna agree to her terms is cause theres still alot more do in the city then where we will meet .Then again it's gonna be hard making convos if her friends decide to cock block lol Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 lol, I understand you need to woe her a bit, before meeting her friends, but you will need to, you know... take it like a man, let them cock block and make sure you get their approval and she feels safe... not there yet, you still have a date to plan... what do you want to do, where are you taking her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Plus I could have had an excuse to wear my dressy cloths lol.Hmm tbh last week we were going to outback grab a bite .I don't drink so can't really say hey let's go grab a drink.Maybe I could now turn it into a coffee or lunch Link to post Share on other sites
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Asking for something on Friday was perfect. Your goal is getting to know each other one-on-one. That's a date. Hanging with her friends is adding to a collection of acquaintances. Not your goal. Besides, do you want to be nitpicked apart by a bunch of her friends afterwards when she barely even knows you yet? As far as what to do? Pick something based on her interests if possible. Personally, I'm not a fan of lunch first dates. Evening stuff tends to be more conducive to a successful first date, but everyone is different. Lunch in the middle of the day? Just one of many things on my agenda. Rush in, chat and discreetly keep an eye on the clock so that I'm not late for my next appointment, then rush out. Evenings? The focus is on the date. I go home, shower, get dressed in a cute outfit that makes me feel sexy...the whole process disconnects me from all the distractions swirling around in my head, and focuses my mind on my date. I also have nothing planned afterwards, so the date takes as long as we are both enjoying ourselves. I also get to reflect on it the rest of the night until I fall asleep. For me at least, daytime dates are an uneven playing field for my attention. It takes much more for my date to break through the mental clutter of the middle of my day and make an impression. Again, that might be just me, but I suspect there's a reason evening first dates are more popular than breakfast or lunch first dates. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
weee111 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Her offering this week with the friends was a good sign (translation: I want to meet you ASAP), but you were right to refuse that. You want a one on one for the first date. Sounds like you're still in, so just have fun on Friday and you'll be fine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I'm with Cutiepie on this one, dates should take place during the evening! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Does Outback work ? I know it's not to fancy but its not bad. Link to post Share on other sites
SJC2008 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Does Outback work ? I know it's not to fancy but its not bad. Why did you have to go there?? You're opening up a chain restaurants for dates debate lol j/k. Unless she's a yuppie, that'll be fine. Or you could REALLY surpisie her and have a brand new Subaru Outback waiting for her when yall get out of Outback!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Does Outback work ? I know it's not to fancy but its not bad. Its not bad, bit its not good. Isn't there a mom and pop place you could take her to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SJC2008 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Its not bad, bit its not good. Isn't there a mom and pop place you could take her to. Of all the posters lol! I guess I'm backward. Chain restaurants are fine for dates IMO, don't stard blowing your wad on fancy stuff until things are headed somewhere! Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Of all the posters lol! I guess I'm backward. Chain restaurants are fine for dates IMO, don't stard blowing your wad on fancy stuff until things are headed somewhere! Dude, a mom and pop place is likely to be a few dollars cheaper than one of the chains, not to mention a nicer setting. To each their own though. My current girl will be lucky to get taken to the hotdog cart, silly princess:lmao: 2 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 Sorry, only American references, I am afraid I can't help out. I wouldn't go to a place too expensive or too fancy, you don't want to try too hard. But you do have to show her that you want to impress her... so yeah, a clean, simple place with good food. Aim for a place with especially good desert - so that you can suggest it to her (nothing quite like "oh, the creme brulee is amazing here", haha) I am exaggerating, go to a place where you feel comfortable being ! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 That's my busiest section! lol Some people are sooooo touchy in here, wouldn't want to be down the pub for a drink with them... :rolleyes::rolleyes: :lmao::lmao::lmao: Tru dat. I post a lot on my phone so my advice is short and to the point... no sugar coating... I think a couple of people must've gotten pissed about it and reported me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 6, 2013 Author Share Posted February 6, 2013 Its not bad, bit its not good. Isn't there a mom and pop place you could take her to.Well I had suggested a burger joint near me last week she said I'd rather a place with real food.I said well I'm not familer with that area what do they have apple bees ,outback or Olive Garden .I said well if outback works for you then I'm up for it she said ya then again this was all last week.Tbh I think the impression I make will be the deciding factor . Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 Well I had suggested a burger joint near me last week she said I'd rather a place with real food.I said well I'm not familer with that area what do they have apple bees ,outback or Olive Garden .I said well if outback works for you then I'm up for it she said ya then again this was all last week.Tbh I think the impression I make will be the deciding factor . I generally don't bring women to those 'family fun places'. Too blah. But Outback is definitely the best of the bunch. Good food. If you want to make a good impression, show that you have some taste in food and restaurants. Do Thai, Indian, Japanese, Ethiopian, whatever. But, also depends on what type of woman she is. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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