Sweeetie Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 I'm dating a new guy, we met online and have seen each other 4 times. We're really attracted to each other and I like him a lot as a person, but he wants to take things really slow on the relationship front. However he took me to bed on the 3rd date. He'd forgotten to buy condoms so we did other stuff meaning oral sex etc, but after that day I told him I want us to have three more meetups before having sex because I feel more comfortable sleeping with someone who I know and who knows me. The last time we saw each other we went to the bar and sat on a sofa there where we were cuddling. While he was kissing me my fingers slid onto his hand because I wanted us to hold hands but he didn't respond; he didnt hold my hand. This is worrying me because I normally associate cuddling and kissing with care; the only guys I've cuddled with in the past are guys who have cared for me and been my boyfriend. Does it seem like this guy only wants sex?
AMusing Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 It seems to me like you are over-thinking things.
MidwestUSA Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 It seems to me like you are over-thinking things. Second this. How can you put a number on dates - 3 - before you will have sex? (Which you already have). That's serious overthought. Do his hands sweat badly?
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