keyshiamarie Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Me and my boyfriend have been close, we have a great friendship...a matter of fact he was the one who said he loved me first twice before I actually said it back...but everyone he says it he looks uncomfortable...so a coupleays ago I told him I had to tell something but I too nervous to say it,.so I told him to tell me something personal a bout how he feels about me and he blurted out, I still love you..and I said omg that's what I was going to tell you......but that was my first time saying it....a couple of weeks ago he told me he was going to be leaving for a couple of weeks, then he said he couldn't see me for a certain period of time because his sister was gone be there...then he said hell be helping someone move...a couple of days ago looking on FB I saw another girl on his page who had been on there before, we got into an argument over it, i found it it was hacked nothing to get mad over..but after I saw him about that he was acting strange that day...he was saying stuff like I want an Asian girlfriend, and stuff like me and my family still might be moving to Memphis, and I told him I don't do long distance......anyways I told him to call me later that day but I ended up calling him twice, he didn't answer so I texted and told him to call me asap he replied back hours later saying what happened...and he didn't say anything to me since, his phone ran it of minutes but he normally call me from other peoples numbers anyways...it's been two days..I don't know if he moved if he's out of town or if he's with another girl, out if he's trying to dump me...then when I was asking him about the girl on his page, I asked 'what's going to happened after this are we breaking up' he said, 'can we take a break, to fix or relationship, I guess' and later he told me that that was what he thought I wanted...I'm do depressed now cuz he left me in the dark...he constantly says he don't want to break up but words are just words...I've been crying about this for days, and right after I told him I loved him this happened!!!
CarrieT Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Your post is a bit rambling and hard to follow but I think the gist is that he isn't being honest with you about everything and there are other people in his life. Beyond that, you have no control and not enough communication from him to be able to feel secure in what you have - or don't have - with him. With that, try and let go. Until he can be there for you 100%, what he is doing with others is his business. Personally, I would move on. He doesn't sound worth the pain and tears you are giving him.
Author keyshiamarie Posted February 2, 2013 Author Posted February 2, 2013 We r 22... Sorry about it being Soo unclear... I was tryna say he acts like a nice guy, he is sweets which makes me happy, but he actsvas if he is hiding something from me....I think he is cheating because he gave me 2 different stories about leaving... 1. He said he had to go help his bestfriend sister move, which is his ex he claims.. 2. He said he won't be able to see me for a while bc his sister is going to be in town ...and its strange that he sayings he wants 2 take a break... idk I'm confused and realy hurt...I need some healthy advice
TaraMaiden Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 I hate to break it to you darling, but if your gut tells you something smells fishy, then it probably is.... and yes - Actions speak louder than words.... If you can, you need to drop off his radar and go No Contact. It seems to be the universal panacea for all relationship ailments at the moment, but if you have to chase it, then it is probably not worth catching. Or.... well, just read my signature....
Author keyshiamarie Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Yea your right...I never contact him first, I don't know what hapened he literally changed over night, the day I found another girl was on his pgae was the same day I spent a night.I just got home went to sleep woke up and saw that.....I'm sick of thinking about tho tho....stil another day no contact yet from him:(
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