sexyrunwaymodel1 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 there is this guy that i was dating and we were totally in love it was great he use to tell me all the time how happy he was with me but then one day he had an attitude with me and he said it was because he was having a bad and he was trying to ignore me so i wouldnt get mad and then the next day he kept ignoring me like not answering his phone and it was really pissing me off so i texted him "****ing ignore me again today its over and i would tell u in person but u dont answer ur phone" and then i kept trying to call him and apologize cause i didnt mean it but he never answered or anything he never even texted anything back at all and i called him from another phone and he answered and i was apologizing and stuff and he said that he really didnt believe me and maybe this is a sign that it wont work out cause this is the second time ive done this so the next day i went to his house at three and waited there tell four and he never came home from work and then i went to the gym that we always go to and waited intell it closed he never showed up so i wrote him and really heart filled letter and i went to his house again late and he was talking on the phone and just told that person to hold on and i gave it to him and he gave me a sad look but then said o is that all and he went in the house. but then i talked to him the next day on the phone and he just had a little attitude towards me and he said we could be friends and i said that doesnt work i know he was like ok u said it not me but then i called him yesterday and told him it was cool if we were friends so we were talking on the phone and it was like we were going out how we were playing around but then i heard him talking to his mom about making something for him to take to a bbq for his friends and he said he was taking some girl from work and that really hurt me so is he seeing someone else??or trying to make me jealous?cause at the gym he seen me flirting with this guy and he left to another room,but n.e ways i really want him back i miss him so much but he is the type of person to act like everything is ok and he doesnt care that it happened. so someone please tell me how to get him back.........
YellowLioness Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Hey... can you use some punctuation, capital letters, and paragraph spacing? I can't seem to fight through your post. Sorry, Yellow
ouch888 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Yeah, that was the longest sentence I have ever seen. But, from what I could understand, you're playing head games with each other. If he doesn't even know if he wants to be friends, I don't think the chances are good to get back together. I know it hurts, but move on with your life and forget about the jerk. I think that making each other jealous reminds me of high school. We're past that now, aren't we?
Starnette83 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 first off he began ignoreing u and givine u attitude, this shows he was probably wanting u to break up with him cuz he couldn face up to do the breakup..he didnt wanna seem like that bad guy i think he might be dating this girl and thats why he acted weird from the start DOnt blame youself, this has nothing to do with u..instead ure the one who should feel mad, hes trying to twist it around and make u feel guilty...stop showing u care for him so much, seems like u been doing the chasing.. guys hate that... Girl have some dignity, some pride in yourself and dont let any guy step alllover u or make you do the chasing!!! You should just keep working out and looking your best, and from now be indifferent with him, dont even mention anything of u and him, trust me once he sees ure not allover him or needing him..he will Regret what hes done and want u back..but why bother ?? hes playing games...
Starnette83 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Oh one more thing, U SHOULD NEVER HAD HAD TO APOLGIIZE, id be pissed to if someone im dating is ignoring my calls and id probably text them its over to get there attention, he has u in a string! Time to cut yourself loose and show him that he cant be messing with u anymore, sorry girl i know it hurts when guys u think u can trust do this, but PICK YOURSELF UP..listen to some upbeat music like christina aguilera FIGHTER and also SURVIVOR from destinys child!! ITS HIS FAULT not yours!!! Dont even CALL HIM Nor TEXT HIM..trust me once he sees ure not around...he will miss you..but as long as he sees ure thinkng of him, it wont matter to him.. Guys like the thrill of the chase..once they know uire hooked they step allover u..whY? cuz they know they can, they know u always will be there, as a backup or whatever..SHOW HIM WHOS THE BOSS!
Author sexyrunwaymodel1 Posted August 27, 2004 Author Posted August 27, 2004 ur totally right that is what everyone is telling me and that is what i am going to do but thank u guys so much for your help and its not hard for me to find someone one else because im not trying to be consided or anything but im not an ugly girl. so thanks again guys.
EC Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 Consided? OK umm. wow... First of all can we say stalker? If hes not asnwering your calls he obviously didnt want to talk to you so you text him, call him from a different phone, drive to his house wait till four, drive to his gym wait there, wtf? No wonder hes all like leave me alone. You need to have more pride girl. He gives you attitude and already told you he doesnt want anything and to be friends. He's offering you his friendship and if you can't handle that then move on, since it looks like he has with the girl from work. Like totally!
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